The guy I've been casually seeing wants me to be "his girl" and be exclusive, but he still just wants things to be casual and to see me like once a week for a quick drink and a hook up. Is it wrong to expect more than that from someone if they want to be exclusive? If they want to be exclusive, shouldn't I be allowed to expect proper dates?
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Of course it's not wrong for you to want more than that. It's also not wrong for him to want less than that. He's not in a place (or you're not the girl) where he wants to have more, but is trying to make it easier on you to accept by making you his girlfriend. And maybe he's being safe too, who knows.
But no, your needs matter. Your wishes matter. Just because a guy calls himself your boyfriend but doesn't make you happy doesn't mean you have to agree to it. I wouldn't agree to it.0