My boyfriend sent my best friend a picture of his penis?

[Anonymous]

We were on the coach watching TV, then my bestfriend (a guy) sent me a picture of him on snapchat saying "What are you doing?" My boyfriend asked me "Who is that creeper?" then took my phone, pulled out his dick, took a picture of it, and sent to my best friend. Why the hell did he do that? Just why? I don't get it. They don't even know each other! We're 20.

[bijinbijinbijin]

lol my boyfriend tried to do that with my phone. This guy from my job just randomly sent me a picture of himself in a bed with his shirt off and he said "good morning beatiful". At my job it is not uncommon for us to have everyones number just in case we need to call someone to come in for us on a day. I was out with my boyfriend when i got the picture and i screamed out of shock and my boyfirend was like "what is it?" and i told him the guy sent me a picture. So my boyfriend grabbed my phone and was like " let me see" lol my boyfreind was upset so he tried to take a picture of himself with his shirt off (my bf is a little tubby) licking his nipple and he texted "this is what happens when you talk to other guys girlfreinds" but i stoped him from sending it becasue i thought it was embarrasing. It was a funny idea though.

[Asker]

Lol it's funny how he randomly sent you that :) My bff sent me a picture with his shirt ON, but yeah admittedly I have a hot bestfriend so my boyfriend is behaving that way I guess.

But YES I agree its super embarrassing! I can't even admit to my bff it was my bf since it was so embarrassing!!!

[bijinbijinbijin]

im pretty sure your bff would understand sinse he is a guy and im sure if he was in your boyfriends position he would feel a bit upset too

[bijinbijinbijin]

if your bff doesn't understand and then he makes it out like your boyfreind is a possesive controlling terrible boyfreind then that means your bff secretly likes you and your boyfreinds even more has every right to feel the way that he feels.

[Asker]

What happened afterward is my bff called me and asked is someone raping me do I want him to call the cops :/ I said no it was... then he said if it was a joke it's a very gross joke. He said it freaks him out...

The next day me and my bff go grab some lunch together, and he asked me if the dick was from someone I'm seeing. I was hesitate to answer since it's embarrassing, then he continued "You're my bestfriend, I would be happy if you find the right guy, but a guy that's rude and possesive isn't gonna bring you the best. Think about it".

I should note that my bff is the one who sits down with me and shred my tears when my exes break my heart...

[Asker]

What should I do in this situation? I didn't gave to tell my bff anything and he's telling me all those things. He wasn't mad he stayed really calm when saying it and he looked straight into my eyes.

[bijinbijinbijin]

well it is obvious that you should be dating your bff and not your boyfreind then. Your bff doesn't even know you have a boyfriend which is strange to me. The guy at my job knew i had a boyfreind becasue i told him and he still was hitting on me. I also have a bff who is a guy but i am engaged and in love and i would be happy to tell the whole world about my fiance. So my guy bff and i are nowhere near as close as we used to be. He is still a bff and he would be glad to come to our wedding but he knows that my fiance is the one that gives me emotional support and the one that i go to when i need to cry. Pretty much my fiance took the place of my bff. When you get older girl, you will realise that having close guy friends and being in a deep loving serious relationship is just not possible. Most married people's bff are their spouces becasue that is how close you will become. I talk to my bff every now and then and care about him like a brother but we have grown and our needs are d

[bijinbijinbijin]

differnt from what they used to be

[Paris13]

He did this little "Dick" Daring Stunt to get a hymn and haw hint to your bestie that This Picture Perfect Pix of his Own "Creepy crawler" that's a boyish behavior Message in a B-------Hands off, you are His and This guy on the other end is on his Turf.
No matter if it was someone who was this Big celebrity, he wouldn't have given a rat's behind over as long as he Made his Huge Pointer to your bestie, who Obviously he doesn't give a hill of beans about.
If you stand for this, you will always have to stoop to whatever poop he throws your way Or someone else's.
Good luck. xx

[Paris13]

..."B" for bottle.. lol:)) xx

[Anonymous]

Hahahah that is so embarrassing! I would tell your bff what happened and introduce them to each other to remove this awkwardness. Tell him he was just jokin'.

[Asker]

But that would be soooo embarrassing for anyone to know "Well her boyfriend sent a picture of his dick to her bff to tell him to back off". :/

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, but then maybe your bff is now thinking that it was YOUR joke. I know it is embarrassing but it already happened and you have to explain it at some point. I don't how though. Maybe you should just introduce them to each other.

[Asker]

What happened afterward is my bff called me and asked is someone raping me do I want him to call the cops :/ I said no it was... then he said if it was a joke it's a very gross joke. He said it freaks him out...

The next day me and my bff go grab some lunch together, and he asked me if the dick was from someone I'm seeing. I was hesitate to answer since it's embarrassing, then he continued "You're my bestfriend, I would be happy if you find the right guy, but a guy that's rude and possesive isn't gonna bring you the best. Think about it".

So my bff already knows himself that it wasn't my joke, but meanwhile he doesn't seem to ship my bf either so I don't know about introduce them to each other, I'm prettu sure my bf would act rude if they meet each other since he told me how much he hates "that creeper".

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, you did not include these details before, but now I think your bff already understands the picture. If he already got it just tell him I am sorry for what happened, I will try to make sure it never happens again. Tell your boyfriend also that that was just your friend and you knew each other since way back and there is nothing between you, and you just want ur bf to not repeat the same thing since it freaked ur friend out and put you in an awkward situation when you couldn't explain it. He could just send a pic of his face instead.

Your bf says your bff is a creep, but I think it is the other way around. Sending a picture of your privates isn't a decent move. I agree with your bff, if your bff keeps embarrassing you in front of your friends just because he is jealous and possessive, then it is not cool at all. A certain degree of jealousy is good but taking it too far like that is stupid and immature.

[PinkAcid]

lol that was a very petty and childish way for your boyfriend to hint that you are taken.

[Asker]

He could take a picture of his face instrad of his dick lol

[Asker]

Why his fick? I dont get it.

[PinkAcid]

suppose it shows he's not just another friend who grabbed our phone because youd only tolerate your boyfriend pulling his dick out in front of you

[HandsomeRaj]

Your bf just got insecure, jealous and wanted to show that 'other' guy that you are taken and are all the way into it.

A very stupid and immature thing to do but what's above is the reason for it :-)

This character doesn't mind anyone thinking low of you (since the pic was sent from your phone) as long as what he wants is in place the way he wants it.

Keep your senses and mind open :-)

[Asker]

This is embarrassing for people to know "Well her boyfriend sent a picture of his dick to her bff to make his territory".

[Jersey1]

Or, she sent a pic of her boyfriends D.

[HandsomeRaj]

Embarrassment is a way of looking at it - a matter of perception :-)

Opening up the topic will save you a lot more in the future AND/OR save you from a possible embarrassing & suffocating relationship :-)

[sawno]

Well thats one way of telling your friend to fuck off lol.
He probably thought that guy was after you.

[cool-man]

he is jealous of your friend, he is so possessive, talk to him politely &
assure him that the guy sent you picture he is just your friend & his (your bf) behavior was very awkward, next time it should not happen

[Asker]

I can't even tell my bestfriend it was my boyfriend since I was so embarrass to tell him my boyfriend is the one that send him his dick picture since it's a very weird behavior...

Afterwards my BFF called me and asked is someone raping me do I want him to call the cops :/ I said no it was... then he said if it was a joke it's a very gross joke. He said it freaks him out... I felt so sorry.

How do I make sure this isn't going to happen again?

[cool-man]

when he is in good mood, you can talk him, his possessive behavior can create problem for you, it can disturb your social relation... please dont tell him you talked me... lol

[swolebookworm]

HAHAH respect to your boyfriend, this guy is a boss! ;)

I personnally think no women should have guy friends, and no guys should have women friends. It's just pushing too much for things to happen, even if you guys are "just friends"...

I would've done the same thing in his position. It's a clear and simple message! And if your "best friend" is freaking out, then he's gayyyy as f*ck!

[Asker]

Why does that make him gay? If he isn't freaking out and enjoy seeing a penis, then that is gay...

And if he intention is to makr my bff jealous, then its very immature and childish for him to do it that way. He can take a picture of his FACE and told my bff "Hi, I'm her boyfriend."

[swolebookworm]

It's not immature, it's funny! If you take it that wrong, it's because you're close-minded.

Seeing a dick is no big deal, I see dicks every day when taking a shower with the boys at the gym, it's not gay seeing a dick. Why would he freak out seeing a dick? THAT is childish.

[Asker]

Its NOT fuunny dince they dont know each other.

[been_waiting]

I accidentally up voted this stupidity

[Asker]

@been_waiting Yeah. I was wondering why on earth do this guy get some upvotes :/

[been_waiting]

the guy who upvoted is just as insecure

[swolebookworm]

You girls are just making a big deal out of NOTHING.

... as always lol...

[xdude1]

Pretty ballsy move I gta give your bf props for that. I guess he has a lot to show off you wouldn't send a pic of a small dick not very intimidating lol

[Asker]

My best friend freaks out...

[pennyroyaltea]

wow what an asshole. he was clearly jealous you were talking to someone else and decided to make you jealous/mad too.

[Asker]

I was worried about my best friend. He told me he freaks out so much and how sick and gross it is J can't even tell him it was my boyfriend.

[MaskedSanity]

Hahahaha, you're dating a jealous immature manchild. You must be so proud.

[MaskedSanity]

Two downvotes by girls, whose sad little boyfriends did exactly the same thing. Have any more for me, ladies? :3

[SammyGurl]

He sent a selfie of what he is a dick! Very mature. Something like that might make me rethink what kind of relationship I really had with that BF.

[DontDropIt]

Lmao, your bf is petty for that. He called himself trying to get back at you lol. Someone may have gotten a little jelly.

[Asker]

My best friend freaks out!

[Bloodfaith]

He sounds jealous and immature.

Most of my friends are guys... I couldn't imagine my boyfriend ever sending any of them dick pics...

[sammy_31]

Jealous perhaps, its your best friend he didn't need to act in that manner.

[Asker]

Yeah it wasn't someone I hooked up or sonething :/ Now this is very embarrassing!

[Cheekkky]

Hahahahahahahaha I don't know why I find this so hilarious. He sounds fun.

[Asker]

I thought he was trying to be funny with the dick pic but they dont even know each other then its not funny at all.

[Cheekkky]

Sorry, but I would still find it funny. He kinda marked his territory and I don't think you best friend is going to get mad about it.

[Asker]

He could take a picture of his FACE and say he's my boyfriend?

Poor my best friend he freaks out so bad...

[Cheekkky]

You need to calm down. If you are so worried for you best friend then call him and tell him it was a joke.

[Asker]

Afterwards he called me and asked is someone raping me do I want him to call the cops :/ I said no it was... then he said if it was a joke it's a very gross joke. He said it freaks him out... I felt so sorry.

[Cheekkky]

Sorry but that just makes it even funnier.

[leann1234]

SUPER immature. He sounds like a jerk and a bully. How long have you been together?

[Asker]

3 months...

[leann1234]

I don't know that i would say he's jealous as much as just bragging that you're his and "this is what she's getting". Most of the time thats insecurity at its best. Trying to make your BFF jealous. Coming from someone who has a guy BFF and each of us being in relationships, its hard and often times you may have to chose. Lose your BFF bc your guy is insecure or get rid of the insecure guy. :-/ Who means more to you. Because you should be prepared for that to turn into an issue with the two guys.

[swolebookworm]

A jerk and a bully because of that? In what world are you living, a cave maybe? Wow it's just a funny dick pic...

RESPECT to that man hahah

[leann1234]

If they knew each other, then yea that would be a guy just fuckin around and then it would be funny. But they don't even know each other. Pretty stupid to send a dick pic to someone you don't know. Sounds like a jerk to me. I live in the mature world. I would never put up with those kind of actions.

[Asker]

I know my BFF for wayyy too long to get rid of him. When other guys break my heart he's the one that shred my tears... On the other hand, I do love my boyfriend so much to get rid of him either... I really love him but sometimes his behaviors are just really weird.

by the way my boyfriend's penis is not as big as my bestfriend. It's really not a good thing for him to brag about...

[leann1234]

HAHAHAHAH Well i probably wouldn't tell your BF that. If you love your BF, you need to talk to him about this. Tell him how you felt about it. Also i would introduce them asap. If they're both going to be in your life then they need to know each other. Double date or something. Let your bf know he has nothing to worry about and that this other guy is your bff and he needs to respect that.

[Asker]

My bff doesn't have a gf. I tried to talk to my bf but he said he isn't comfortable with "that creeper" being a part of my life :( Admittedly my bff is hot and all but I love my bf for him and he shouldn't be insecure about that. His sister (we're pretty close) told me that my bf has a problem with my bff because it makes him insecure, and that one day I might leave him for my bff cuz he thinks he's hotter. But thats not the case! I tried to convince him but he didn't listen. Later he said "Let's cut right to the chase. I dont have smoking hot girls around me. You shouldn't too!" What am I supposed to do now? :(

[leann1234]

Goes back to me telling you its a huge possibility you may have to chose. I don't know still maybe them meeting would help. is your bfs sis single? Is there any one, even just another friend that would go with you guys so it wouldn't just be the 3 of you? The guys should get to know each other so your bf doesn't see your BFF as a threat.

[Asker]

My bff's sister is not single. My bf hates my bff to death I think he's going to act rude when they meet... I can ask a friend to go with us but I think he will be rude... and I don't want to make, y bff feels like shit if my bf is rude...

[leann1234]

well. may be time to make a decision. If he's gonna be that insecure over a friend he's gonna be insecure over any guy that speaks to you. Communication is key here. Be honest and upfront. With your bf

[ScruffyNerfHerder]

Haha, what? He's so jealous (and petty)! Gut feeling, he isn't the type of guy you want long-term ;)

[Asker]

I love him, but his behaviors are really weird sometimes. If his point is to make my bff jealous then I would have to admit it was a very childidh way to do so...

[oddsonchances]

Make ego he wants to let the guy kow you are his but it's very childish

[popcorn35]

omg, that is kinda strange ,, and i have no fucking idea why he did that...

[Anonymous]

Hahahahahaha lmfao, sorry I could not help but laugh lol.

But I think he is doing that because he probably thought you were texting another guy.

[Opinion Owner]

Just reread it. Yeah I think he's jealous. I would be also probably..

[Asker]

He's my bff not a guy I hooked up or something lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I know. But the fact that he is a guy makes it a bit weird..

[Asker]

It's possible to have a bff of a different gender.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I know that lol.

It's just that it can be a little uncomfortable if you two are constantly texting each other..

[Asker]

We text esch other just as much as best friend text each other lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah lol.. If it was a girl then yes, but it just gets a little uncomfortable when it is a guy...

[Anonymous]

He probably thought another guy sending a pic to you was flirting (maybe was). Oh and ahahahahahahaha

[findingdreamland]

Not gonna lie He seems like a fun person lmao

[Asker]

I thought he was trying to be funny with the dick pic but they dont even know each other then its not funny at all.

[findingdreamland]

quite a well start to know each other lol
i dont think you need to worry. Seriously this should be some kind of a guy language probably?

[Asker]

I don't know about that lol. But my bff freaks out bad time lol.

[CommieDearest]

Why is he not your ex boyfriend?

[Asker]

Because I love him... Admittedly his behavior is childish and immature but... I do love him.

[CommieDearest]

He needs to apologize to your friend. Surely he knows your best friend is a dude if you have been going together long enough to love each other... so why he acted like such an asshole is beyond me.

[Asker]

He knows I have more guy friends than girl friends, but we were together for 3 months je never really ask if my best friend is a girl or a guy. Yes he needs to apologize to my bff I agree, but I'm sure he won't and would act rude to my bff if they meet.

[rakeyxo]

dump him... he's way overbearing

[Asker]

... I do love him, but admittedly his behavior was weird...

[rakeyxo]

If you love him thats different, he was probably just jelous, and he probably isn't usually like that if you think it was weird

[LastGirlScout]

Haha! That's pretty funny!

[Asker]

I thought he was trying to be funny with the dick pic but they dont even know each other then its not funny at all.

[LastGirlScout]

It's not cool, but it's damned funny whether they know each other or not.