I don't want to go through all the details here cause they are probably a lot, so i'll keep this as short as i can.
I have been single for a good amount of time and had an adventure lately. When it started to end it made me a little bitter with people. Maybe somewhat cynical too at times.
Last time i got laid it was casual sex with a fuckbuddy until i got tired of that. This was about 10 months ago. But i feel yet that i want some time alone rather than have a reletionship or something casual again.
Can't help but wonder though: Will being alone for a long period of time make you worse in relatioships? Or worse in bed? For example, i have this crazy worry that when i will have sex again i won't be that good at it anymore cause i'll only remember the basics.. Any people with experience at being alone for a relatively long period of time?
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As someone who's had long dry patches, I wouldn't worry. It's just sex - not rocket science. It's pretty much instinctive. Anyway, if you don't get it right the first time, I'm sure you'll get a second chance if the person likes you.
Apart from that, the only thing you have to watch out for is loneliness, i. e. feeling lonely. That can be dangerous in the long run, increasing the odds of early death by 45%, and making you more suspicious and defensive when dealing with people. In other words, it can create a bad cycle. So if you start feeling lonely, start engaging with other people again. If you want to know more, google 'john cacioppo loneliness'.1