So here's the thing... long story short I looked at her texts (yes a big mistake) and found something that rather upset me
We've been dating for 3 months and a guy asked her if she was dating... she said she's "been on dates" but not in a relationship... he then asks her out and she says she likes him but not in that way? And isn't ready for a relationship and didn't want him to wait for her to be ready?
I'm so confused because it's sending so many mixed signals... I've got 2 ways to look at this
1) she has mentioned in the past how her guy friends always drop contact with her once they find out she's dating and she just wants to be friends which makes her sad. Is she just saying this to try and keep him as a friend? This would make me uncomfortable if they ever did anything together because he may try something?
2) she isn't sure of us but wants to keep this guy on the back burner... but why tell him to not wait for her?
I love this girl to death and she says she loves me... I have no reason to doubt her faithfulness other then this and I don't really want to bring it up with her... what's your take on this?
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Dump her immediately5