I've been married over 10 years, have 2 beautiful children. everything's been perfect. then I met her. she's only a few years younger, maybe 3, but seems like she's in her early 20's. not in a bad, immature way. just full of life and awe still. great body. really intelligent. has a very different, very interesting outlook on life. annoyingly stubborn, but somehow in a very cute way. smells great.
I was attracted from the very moment we met. a few months later I realized she has a crush on me. her shy nervousness turns me on. her smile drives me crazy. I find any excuse to touch her, her arms, her back. she never touches back though, just stares down. I'm afraid if I take it a step further too fast I'll scare her away. I have to have her. what should I do?
there's nothing wrong with loving more than one person.
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You start dating your wife again, That's what you do. Your wife and you have fallen into old habits with everyday life and life just became a routine properly goes something like this work, kids, bed or something like it. But for real have the grandparents take the children for the weekend or at most for 24hrs. Drive and rent a bed and breakfast or a hotel with a spa, hot tub, wine and romantic dinner. Do things that you did for her that you did before you got married. Tell her how beautiful she is and thank her for having your children and for being your wife and tell her the things you love about her. This other girl only seems exciting because she is new but what you really need is re new your relationship with your wife.5