Ok so there is this girl that i have liked for a year now, But things kind of got awkward between us so we haven't really been talking. She used to SHOW many SIGNS of interest such as talking and smiling at me a lot, offering me things, sitting next to me, looking at me, etc.. This was awhile ago but after i told her i had feelings for her, she STARTED acting shy around me, she wouldn't talk to me unless i talked to her and she would look down. I Didn't talk to her for months thinking she didn't like me. After that she got back with her ex who she is broken up with now. When she was with him, she said "maybe we could be great friends" to me. That was last year in the 10th grade and now we are juniors, she just broke up with one of my guy friends (at least i heard) We still do not talk though. Lately i have been seeing her look at me a lot though, and my friends notice to. I caught her staring at me at least 3 times, 1 time was in class and from the corner of my eye i saw her looking at me and the moment i turned around and looked at her she looked away real fast. On the other hand, I always see her flirting with other guys. She got this dude's kik right in my face and i always see her smiling and laughing with other guys and touching them to, yet all she does is look at me sometimes while she is flirting with other guys... its confusing... I doubt she likes me because the only real sign she shows is looking at me often, well there were 2 times when i was talking to other girls and she kind of interrupted the conversation... I don't know why though since me and her don't talk... I don't know maybe its just a friend thing... But anyways do i have a chance with her or am i only going to be an old friend?
- Yes you do have a chanceVote A
- No, Just forget about herVote B
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she became shy immediately after you told her you liked her - that probably means that she didn't expect that from you so soon. maybe she had some feelings for you at the time, but she wasn't so sure about them yet, and your confession made her feel pressured. you didn't officially ask her out after telling her you liked her, right? so she would think, "what is our relationship now?" when a guy tells me he likes me, or if i can feel very obvious signs of him liking me, and i have some romantic feelings for the guy, sometimes, i react in the same way because the guy didn't officially ask me out or anything, and so as girls, we'd be confused about our current relationship with you boys, and would try to avoid you. but if she's looking at you again, she may still be interested. maybe she felt that you weren't serious, or maybe something stopped her from pursuing a relationship with you. maybe she wasn't ready for a new relationship because of her ex. there could be a variety of reasons for a girl to suddenly back off like that. some girls are actually uncomfortable with guys that they like who like them back while being completely carefree with other guys that they have no interest in having a serious romantic relationship with. i can be playful and outgoing with my guy friends who i know i'll never consider dating, but around my crush who i think likes me back, i get so nervous that i don't even look him in the eye and sometimes avoid him because of the butterflies i get in my stomach when i'm near him. that may be the case with this girl as well. but it's not the same with every girl, so maybe you should have a talk about this with her privately? it's better to confront this sooner rather than later because relationships are tricky and sometimes, waiting will get someone hurt0
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