I feel really... horrible I guess and stupid.
I was never really into him because I thought he was a player so he kept asking me out and I rejected him to the point that I started to ignore him.
He just kept getting hotter and hotter and now is attending one of the best universities and is an athlete there.
How do I get over this feeling of regret?
I rejected this guy and he ended up becoming a hot athlete at a great university?
I feel really... horrible I guess and stupid.
What Guys Said 45
I know how you feel. You missed out and it sucks!11
First of all, you're an idiot. All girls tend to do this though so don't feel like you're the only one
Secondly, good job! You obviously gave him motivation to improve himself and he has done that.
Thirdly, your regret is unimportant, it's something you're just going to have to live with until it goes away.
Girls, stop rejecting the nice guys!!2
Solid troll, very solid indeed.4
"You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo"
Take this as a lesson. Instead of killing yourself about it, learn from it. Next time, give it a shot, who knows what may come out from it; if you don't try it, you'll never know, and maybe one day you'll regret it (like in this case).2
HAHAA amazing and very entertaining. Very funny
You should of got it right the first time, this is a man's world. Now your useless as a sack of potatoes with lipstick. while he's making his way to the top rich, sexy, healthy and probably going to find a sweet wife to marry for the rest of his life. So he can give her everything she deserves, especially his body and money
she's going to feel like a princess. Too bad you didn't believe in him ;) life and learn my young padawan3
So in other words when he became the next Tom Brady you kicked yourself in the ass for turning him away? *shakes head* Very shallow my dear, very shallow indeed. Here, console yourself with this: i65.fastpic.ru/.../...6111be6b9b24545955a2d7a6.jpg2
You can't really, outside of focusing on your life and dating other people. You "messed up", but not really. You're just feeling that way because things are going well for him now, so you feel jealous of the exciting life another girl might have with him. I doubt you miss him now. It's more the idea of being with a hot successful man and he is one that slipped through the cracks.
Time will take care of the emotions. I don't mean to laugh at all, but his life is going well so all of the girls who turned him down while growing up are likely going through what you are now. Good for him. You can always try contacting him to see if it goes anywhere, but I can tell you now. He's got alooot of girls doing that already. Maybe he'll have a soft spot in his heart for you tho0
Real girls want real guys they don't have to be sports stars or anything like that they just have to have a good heart be a good person and treat them right. The girls that only go for looks or status will, in most cases, end up sad and lonely and even the short average guy wouldn't look twice at them. If u had gone out with him at the time he asked then he would still be in a good uni as an athlete but u wouldn't be with him now he'd have already moved on to the cheerleaders and fans that will be offering themselves on a plate to him and you would be one of those unhappy girls that only go for stars!!0
Yes, because whether a got treats you right or not doesn't matter. Only how hot and good at sports he is.4
Haha, this at least comes across really shallow. And if looks and fame are all you are after, then it is shallow. But I will give you the benefit of the doubt.
You rejected him for the person he was then. Because he was a player. And yet in all likelihood, he is still probably a player. So you do not have anything to regret.
I think what you are feeling is an infatuation with a lifestyle you don't have.0
You don't. You're shallow, and you're passed up a great opportunity that you can't redo. Have fun living your life with that.4
That's what you get for being shallow too bad he is better than you now.5
Don't worry about it. A guy with that much fame and prestige would have most likely been tempted by all sorts of groupie girls and swimsuit models to sleep around with and cheat on you. Most young male athletes are real meat-heads who are tempted by sex, drugs, and rock'n'roll. And usually blow away all their earnings faster than they earn them. Many of them don't last long as pros anyway.0
"Back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot they all on me" but yea seriously of I were you I'd just talk to the guy and kinda do some "what ifs" and see how he feels. I've been in a similar situating before but I only rejected her because she was only 11 and I was 16 lmao. Now she's 18 and super sexy. Just kinda let him know what you think of him now vs then and I'm sure you might feel better.0
"I've got enough money I'm not a gold digger trust me. But do I want a guy whose a celebrity and all the girls want? hell yes. Don't act like you're any different we all want what we can't have."
Men are pretty different. You're projecting your own modes of attraction onto the opposite gender.
It's been corroborated in sociological studies that women prefer men whom they know are desired by other women. This preference does not exist in men.
Women, by nature, tend to like men that they "can't have". Men tend to just like what they like.0
Awww you poor baby, maybe one day you'll grow up3
Karma is a...
P. S. You deserved this. Maybe you should start looking into people instead of being materialistic.2
Seriously? You are probably the most shallow women I have ever heard of... But what goes around comes around...2
try to forget him it'll be better for you0
Skater boy- Avril Lavine2
Move on. Time doesn't only work in one direction. So you saying no means that maybe he is flawed and those flaws will be on display in the future. Everything happens for a reason.0
I always wanted to say this... mad or nah3
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What Girls Said 17
Move on. You live and you learn i guess. There isn't much you can do. Just think of it as a life lesson.3
You never were into him and now you regret because he's some big thing now? Sounds wrong.9
When we are not into a person, we definitely won't date him/her. It is the same for all people.
As for mistaken him for a player, Take this as a lesson that next time when u meet another guy, know him on a deeper level before you strike him off. and dont believe everything u hear or read from someone else. i know rumours spread like wildfire in school campus, however also be on guard against fakes.
Sometimes when we missed an opportunity, we just missed it, we can beat our chest but life goes on...0
I don't feel you do. You are just jealous of his progress.5
Hmmm, tell yourself you don't want to date someone because of superficial reasons. Don't regret your decision. You didn't like him before and if he didn't have the personality to capture your attention then what's so great about him?0
Lmao that's what you get for rejecting him. Move on, you had your chance0
I don't want a hot famous athlete.
I think testosterone driven alpha males are typically always the same. Yeah they are nice to look at, but in reality, they are usually not as bright and often cheat. I assume (and may be wrong) but are you into the Kardashian life ideology. The one where you are famous for being famous. You have an active instagram account, and constantly want the praise of others. You feel that having a shallow trophy relationship would make others admire you more and you actually don't care if they like you for who you are as long as they like you? I am not trying to attack you here, I am curious if this is accurate.
If you had gotten with this guy when he was after you, I am fairly certain he would have been done with you by now for many reasons and if you were to see him now and made it known you were interested... He will more than likely use you for the lay and toss you aside.
I am not judging you for being shallow. But I have to state, it is not a path you should try and travel, WE don't look great forever, and if you only care for the shallow shit now, you will be alone and miserable when your looks fade (AND they will!). You need to have some depth of character and something other than your body to offer the world.1
You can't. We live and learn.0
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