I rejected this guy and he ended up becoming a hot athlete at a great university? (Page 2)
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Hmmm, tell yourself you don't want to date someone because of superficial reasons. Don't regret your decision. You didn't like him before and if he didn't have the personality to capture your attention then what's so great about him?
Yeah I guess so that's definitely true our personalities didn't click and he seemed really desperate to me at the time which is why i thought he was a player but guess not. He was practically in love with me before so hey at least I have something to brag about ;)
You don't like him enough to be with him. You only like him now because he is hot and popular, he deserves more.
Did you miss the part where i said he used to be a player? apparently you people don't know how to read questions.
I read your question, but do you even know what you wrote? "... because I thought he was a player.." You thought he was a player, that does not mean that he is.
Well then you're being pretty hypocritical I assume you know exactly the type of guy he is now to know i don't deserve him?
I never said I knew how he is now. I am saying that you don't deserve him now since you weren't interested before. From the way you stated your question it looks like the only two things that have changed are his looks and popularity... And that change makes you regret your lack of interest.
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Has to be.
You haven't mentioned the part where he became less of a player.
Or are we just assuming that when he became hotter and more in demand he immediately decided to settle down?
I don't think he ever was. I rejected him because I thought he was a player but then started to ignore him when he really actually liked me cause I didn't feel the same. It wasn't because I thought he was ugly or anything either... I guess now that he is kinda "famous" and really really attractive I wish I'd given it a chance but that is the superficial side of me talking
He's probably a player now, whereas he wasn't before, lol. The OP has it all wrong, but what can you expect?
Maybe
You had your reasons for rejecting him and it's no good having any regrets. What's done is done and cannot be undone. Just accept that he's changed for the better and move on. There will be other guys, there always is.
thanks i am over it now
You don't. You're shallow, and you're passed up a great opportunity that you can't redo. Have fun living your life with that.
LOL. Well, you can console yourself with the fact that he might not have become a hot athlete if you had not rejected him.
lol yes you inspired him to get better. XD
lol okay I found another hot guy it's all good now :)
I don't feel you do. You are just jealous of his progress.
Karma is a...
P. S. You deserved this. Maybe you should start looking into people instead of being materialistic.
Seriously? You are probably the most shallow women I have ever heard of... But what goes around comes around...
Yes, because whether a got treats you right or not doesn't matter. Only how hot and good at sports he is.
*guy
Back then they didn't know me now I'm hot they all on me.
Mike Jones who Mike Jones
Swisha HOUSE! 8-)
They tellin all they friends when I leave how they miss me now
I'm a stall her like she stalled me now she tryna call me bitch image dog your ho ass like you dogged me. Okay I'm done lol
My boyfriend is a famous hot guy at the college. I'm always in doubt if he's a player or not and with so many chicks around him I'm always worried and paranoid :/ So yeah that's the unattractive side of having a hot boyfriend.
Yeah i get you girl! good for you :)
Thank you :) Just that if you missed out on him it's not exactly an all-way bad thing.
yeah i have;t had much luck with the popular jock-type guys honestly! the guy i'm dating now is in law school and he's much more relaxed
Yeah good for you. Before getting together with my current bf I used to like another popular guy too and I thought he liked me back until I find out he was a huge player that flirts with everyone! :/
That's what you get for being shallow too bad he is better than you now.
Wait so girls not settling for average guys is the equivalent of guys not settling for whales. That sounds like female logic.
A girl with no boobs/butt is a whale to you?
No, a fat girl is a whale to me.
Men usually get more attractive as they grow older. Women are the opposite. Enjoy your few years of good looks :)
don't worry i will just date older guys :)
They will then discard you for a younger woman, though.
And then I'll find another older guy. Your theory doesn't work.
You just want him now cause he is good looking and an athlete.
This 100%
Oh enough of the "you just want me cause im next" bullshit. Yeah that's why I want him so what?
Awww, welll that's too bad
Guess you'll have to find another hot guy
That's the plan!
Yay! That's good
Move on. Time doesn't only work in one direction. So you saying no means that maybe he is flawed and those flaws will be on display in the future. Everything happens for a reason.
Hot famous athletes have a very short time-frame for being in that limelight. NFL players are a dime a dozen. One sold me a car at Carmax.
yeah i guess so but he will still hold that status!
Yeah, at carmax