I dated this guy 15 years ago and found him on Facebook about a year ago. This past week he messaged me saying he wanted to come spend the weekend with me. BUT it was like having a rock sitting on my couch the whole weekend. He watched movies on Netflix and hardly spoke, basically ignored me wen I did try to start a conversation, didn't touch me, flirt, make eye contact or even look at me hardly for that matter. Didn't give not one compliment or any sign e was the least bit interested ! So I couldn't wait for the weekend to end so I could take him home... took him home and even on the hour and a half drive he slept and didn't say maybe two words the whole time! I knew there was nothing there. I knew I would not be making that trip again only to have a rock taking up space on my couch all weekend , BUT when I get home and sign onto Facebook he sends me a message saying "Hope you made it home ok!! Had a really great time sweetheart Sorry I felt so bad toward the end of our time Hope to see you again sometime, bye hun!!
That was the most life I seen come from this guy the whole weekend !! I swore I knew without doubt he had no interest what so ever in me then that message.. now I am lost with any answers.. clue as to how he really felt! All body language and actions said not interested , but his message says the opposite. Can the guys maybe clear this up on what message I should listen to PLEASE ! Thanks!
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In reading what you have put here, "W," without it being etched in stone, it sounds like he was just Treating You and your gracious hospitality as though You were Both-----Just a room at the Holiday Inn.
He was rude and crude, showing total disrespect by Using and Abusing you, lopping and loping and loafing around as though he were at the Ritz.
He didn't give a hill of beans if you were wearing a maid's uniform, pinafore attached. He just wanted a free weekend, a place to lay his hat and no action between the sheets because it Might mean Straying for even a second from his flicks and kicks... he was looking for comfort in all the wrong places, trouble was, it didn't Contain You in his Picture Tube.
Delete him and Block him from Your Facebook and your House. He will pull it again, this Joe from Idaho, and the next time it will probably be More down a beaten path.
Listen to this Here ol wise owl... she knows when someone is being taken and when someone is Taking someone for a ride. This major dud is just a train wreck that wants to ride your caboose for the carefree weekends away from his Own----No meals on wheels service back at his own ranch.
Good luck. xx1
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