I met this guy online and we ended up meeting up briefly at the bar on Friday and then I went to his place last night and watched football, and then we watched a movie. We chatted and got to know each other and during the movie we cuddled, which led to making out, which let to heavy petting, and I know he wanted to go further, but I told him I wasn't ready. He obliged and we just cuddled and would've fallen asleep. He told me he wanted me to stay the night but I had to get home to my dog. At that point it was already 3 am. We kissed goodbye, but he didn't mention hanging out again and I haven't talked to him since.
Do guys appreciate when girls avoid sex this early? It was kind of hard to read what he thought. Should I wait for him to contact me? Any input it appreciated, thanks.
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I neither like nor dislike it. I either like you or I don't. Girls are under the impression that holding out makes the guy like you more or something, but thats not even remotely true. If I respect you , I respect you from the beginning. I f we go too long without though , I might think the girl isn't into me like that.2