This guy I was seeing moved away, he told me before he left that if he was staying here he'd want me to be his girlfriend. He came down to visit some fam for a couple of weeks and stayed with me for a week before leaving again to another city with family. During his stay he was super affectionate, made me breakfast and dinner and acted like my boyfriend. Going out and doing things. He mentioned his new job is not going well and he might decide to move back here. Each time I brought it up it seemed like he didn't have a definitive plan. Before leaving he said he was coming back in two weeks and wanted to know if he could stay with me again. Before he left he asked a lot of questions about my dating life and even asked to read my texts and wanted to know if I was seeing someone else. I didn't want to answer because we are not official. Now its been three days and I haven't heard from him. he's coming back in two weeks but I'm confused. Is it weird that he's not telling me his life plan (whether he is moving or not) I know he says he doesn't have a plan, but he also hasn't mentioned what we would be if he came back. I'm just confused because he shows a lot of signs he cares like being jealous, but is also somewhat distant and doesn't text me while he is away. I don't want to be getting played.
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Sounds like he was laying a foundation last time. Next time he comes around, he's going to want to do a little something. you aren't getting played, you were being played from the start. You are available, thats it. he didn't define anything but is laying foundation? thats totally my move. Im willing to bet that if he does contact you, and he will, when its time to come your way, it will be like two or three days before and he will initiate a sexual act. I want to bet.0
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