My ex bf dumped me 2.5 years ago, mainly because he wanted to have sex and I wanted to wait a bit longer (I was a virgin at the time) Anyway, I dumped me in a really cruel way and then later ridiculed me online on his blog, Facebook etc. I decided to delete him from fb the day after he broke up. However, mutual friends told me that he was still angry about the fact, that I moved on so quick and didn't seem to bother about him. I ignored him throughout the whole period and never wrote to him again.
Fast forward 2.5 years and he writes me a message on fb, saying hi and saying he hopes I'm ok, along with telling me to say hi to the family and that he now lives in my home country after getting a job there.
I replied as nicely as I could and just for the sake of it. He went on to tell me that he's pulled himself together and has gotten his act together, that he loves his new career, that he feels great about travelling, then he proceeded to ask me what I had been up to, along with telling me his brother got married and how his mom was doing.
Why would my ex contact me after so many years to tell me all these things? I mean, I don't really care about it since he dumped me like that years ago.
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He's finally grown up and regrets how he dumped u. Or he's trying to. finish something he started and finally have sex with u. Play along but be careful not to get hurt again. If he's genuine then maybe u can be friends again1