I feel like our generation is screwing themselves over, with everyone pretending not to care. We don't want to seem too interested, god forbid we text back too soon or actually tell someone we want to be with them instead of just being friends with benefits, etc.
I'm sick of the games and am thinking of just taking another route, if I care about someone I will let them know. Unfortuanetly, I think this approach scares a lot of people away and gets you labeled clingy or crazy.
What are your experiences/thoughts on this topic? Have you had more success by playing hard to get or by actually being vulnerable and admitting your emotions?
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I wouldn't say I've had success being straight up about my feelings, but I would say that I've had some good reactions and it has felt way better than pretending. I think in the long run it could be very successful. Playing games has always felt lame and ridiculous to me.0