I told him I needed to figure my own shit out and that I didn't want to talk right now, but he did quite the bang up job of avoiding any kind of conversation that could improve our relationship is (or whatever it is at this point) I know he cares about me, I know he really likes me, but our relationship us stuck in the rut where it either improves or it self destructs. I don't want it to self destruct, I want to hep it grow. my friends root for this relationship because they see how happy we can make each other, and how happy we are around each other. it's damn near harmonious. but he seems like a scared little boy who runs from problems, and I know that not who he really is, I've known him too long to know that he doesn't have a set of balls when it comes to talking about whats real. however, we're not talking right now. I want to let the dust settle, I know we both want to be together in some capacity, but when we tried to do it casually like a year ago in ended terribly because of his jealousy issues. I'm willing to take it even just a little further to avoid problems like that, but I haven't even had a chance to voice that to him and I don't know how much space I should be giving him either. it's been a week. in the past he has contacted be instead before I even had to.
- give him some more time, he obviously wants to be with you in some capacityVote A
- you shouldn't talk to him againVote B