Loner girl... Am I unlovable?

I don't have many friends... All of my friends are loner/gamers having an existential crisis every other month... but I love them.

I'm considered attractive, but I feel like once a guy gets to know me, he prefers a more extroverted "party girl"..

I'm not into superficial shit... but I feel like I might be boring.

I feel unlovable..


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Stop. Don't let yourself feel unlovable. Because you are! I know this because you're the type of girl I look for, and I'm a solitary cat, too. I mean, my ideal Sunday is going to a small town Flea Market in the morning, then watching 'I Love Lucy' and 'Twilight Zone' reruns, while making a big eight hour pot of chicken soup - and I'm not exactly a senior citizen yet.

    I'll tell you what; send me a Message, with a more in depth run down, and I will give you a 100% truthful assessment of how guys see you. I WILL be honest, mind you, so don't go through with it if you don't want to hear it all - be it good or bad. (I have a feeling it'll be good, though; judging by what you said so far).

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  • Just get out more often. I don't like party girl's and the same could be at least said from what i have seen on this site. i actually don't know many guy's that prefer party girls it's that your not really giving the relationship thing a chance.

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  • Maybe they just don't get you.

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  • There are lots of people who aren't parties or superficial.

    And those people aren't necessarily boring, either.

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    • Where are they allllll lol... I guess it doesn't help that I live in LA. The motherland for people who are my exact opposite

    • Oh, that's a good point!

      Maybe you need to move from there first? You'll save money and perhaps meet others more akin to your interests?

  • Loner girl can be a curious subject for guys and can be a turn off too. if me, i think i like a gal who are a loner, its better to spend time with them then with an outgoing person, who can't stop bothering about her friends and social status

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  • You are lovable but you need to love yourself before you can love others. Not every girl is meant to be a "party girl" you fill a niche that many guys would love to fill. You just haven't come across the right one yet. Don't give up :)

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    • I would think so, but reality shows me different lol

    • I don't intend to change who I am, and I like the person I am. I just think ill be forever alone because of it

  • How are you out in public when you do go out?

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    • Depends... I'm known to be more quiet than my other friends, but smiley... I don't approach people usually but if they approach my I'm polite and nice to them, even if I'm uninterested. I try not to be awkward lol... I think guys are usually drawn in by my looks though depste how I may act. Then after a few months they I start feeling like they try to change me into the outgoing girl type

    • Yeah, changing other people never worked. I'm not a part type myself and have few close friends. As long as you smile and stuff, I'd say you're good. Then again I don't "get" hints / flirting. Even if you don't approach, do you at least try to go near the guy?

  • awww sweetheart your not unlovable

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  • You kind of remind me of this one girl I know. Well I didn't know her well but her personality seems similar to yours--based on assumptions only.

    I had a huge brush on her.

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    • You had a brush on her? haha.

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    • And yes I liked her because of her traits. She seemed very nice and carefree.

    • I rarely know her though. We are friends but not good friends. Somewhere in the middle of acquaintances and friends.

  • R u a virgin too

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