The guy I'm dating likes me mentally and emotionally but has made no indication that he is physically interested in me. He hasn't even touched my arm. I'm trying to figure out whether it's just shyness or if he possibly doesn't feel attracted to me. PS I was the one who asked him out.
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I would definitely do that, and I already have. However, I should point out that I seem to have a condition, where the more I like and admire and respect a woman, then the more PHYSICALLY attractive she appears to me. I mean that literally, too. Its like, with every notch she (any girl) moves up the intelligence scale, she also moves up that hotness scale. In short. I will BECOME sexually attracted to a girl, provided she first stimulates my mind. So, I'm not going to miss out on what could potentially be a loving relationship, on account of something as unimportant as looks. And the inverse is true as well, with me; If Iam with a smokin-hot chic, who turns out to be a stupid-ass stuck-up bitch of a liberal, then she'll actually become uglier. Boner-killing, actually. Its like I step into a Twilight Zone episode - where I'm talking to a pretty girl, then she mentions she's a Democrat, and I turn around, only to see she has become a horrible, life-sucking succubus, requiring me to scream like a six-year-old girl and run away, terrified, complete with snot bubbles and everything. :)1