I have a crush on a guy at my university. I like him a lot, he is different from other guys that I have encountered. I love his personality and he seems like such a cool and interesting person. I've hung out with him a couple times and I see him at the University sometimes. We've known each other for almost 4 months now. I was intimate with him one time but we still talk and hung out with each other afterwards. He hasn't just "disappear". He has really good qualities. He's kind, peaceful, he loves nature and the Earth, he loves his family he's motivated, hardworking and more. I would love to date him. I want to tell him that I like him but there are things holding me back that I don't know if I can get over. He seems like a really interesting guy who has cool hobbies and has had cool experiences in his life. We have things in common and we get along well but he has did things that I never experienced before, things I would love to do. I guess I see him as out of my league. I try not to think negative but I often think why tell him that I like him, he probably likes one of the girls in his yoga class or a girl at the university and finds them more interesting and fun. I've also had bad experiences with other guys. I would tell them that I like them and they would just want to use me for sex or they didn't like me. They would just disappear after I stated how I felt. I would end up hurt.. I guess I'm afraid to tell this guy that I like him because I'm afraid of being rejected again. It seems like I can't find anyone who is interested in me and it seems like guys just don't like me. I'm kind and fun, smart and I think I'm attractive, but I'm never cocky. I see myself as the girl next door and just like everyone else. Sometimes it makes me sad to think about it. I really like this guy and he seems so compatible and he's different from other guys I have encountered but I think my fears are going to hold me back from telling him. How do you get over your fears?
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its always funny when a girl gets put in the shoes of a guy. how about you do the same thing we do eh. how about you spend days/weeks to muster up the courage and plan your speech and approach meanwhile knowing that you may be shot down. Thats always fun. I may be putting it hilariously, but seriously, thats what you gotta do. after a long time of planning, and dampening your fears, you walk up and let him know you like him, knowing full well he may friend zone your ass.1
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