Guys are just like women. They claim they want nice... but settle for assholes...
Guys claim they want a girl who is loyal, kind, funny, down to earth, ect... I truly believe to be all of the above and then some, but my relationships always result in me being taken advantage of!
And in real life, all of my friends who are cocky, a little slutty, rude, ect.. seem to have guys all over them!
Can someone give me an honest explanation for this and not your dishonest opinions about how you guys would "never date a girl like that"... I've heard it all and seen differently.
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It's quite simple, really.
Nice girls get fucked over because they wait on handsome, charming guys to come to them. These handsome, charming guys are frequently players. Their goal is not to be in a relationship, but to have sex. By being attractive, they can easily get with many different girls, and they do. There is no incentive for them to be faithful to one, because if a "good" girl gets tired of his crap, she can be easily replaced. Players have a nice line of girls, both "good" and "bad" ones, ready to get with him.
The average guy isn't really like that. The relationship oriented guy probably isn't going to be the one who's handsome, charming, and always after whatever pretty girl he sees (there ARE handsome, charming relationship-type guys, but they get snatched up and held on to very fast). Most of these guys have to put in significant effort to get girlfriends, and many of the more average ones are ignored because they're not physically attractive or charming enough to get girls excited. As such, you have a large portion of average guys who want a nice girlfriend they can't get, while the hot guys get more pussy than a cat breeder. Girls get used by the players, get angry, and blame all men, even though most guys hate the current "dating" scene as much as you do.0