He and I have been together for 5 years. I think I know the answer to this..just need validation. I found out that he has had relationships on various levels with other women throughout our 5 years. Says he gets lonely on the weekends because we can't be together then. That he needs some type of company. He says he loves only me. But this having other women in his life the whole time he has been with me..he is disrespecting me right? He isn't in love with me like he says right? I need to kick him to the curb right? My problem is I love him too much and am having a hard time letting him go. What should I do?
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Yes, you already know what to do. He is not a respectful, loving, caring, monogamous man. Don't you think that you're entitled to that? Do you really enjoy "sharing?" That isn't fair to you and you shouldn't have to settle.
There are available men who will embody what you're looking for and can be loyal and faithful. Regardless of the fact that you love him, you need to really ask yourself, what are you getting out of this? Why should you accept this type of behavior and treatment from a male? If you love and respect yourself enough then you need to muster up the energy to officially make a decision. The decision should be to kick his ass to the curb. Take some time to feel better about yourself and really determine what you're looking for in a man and a relationship.
You're worthy of love, respect, honor, friendship, loyalty and all of the beautiful things that encompass a healthy relationship. Please make the best choice.0