So there is this girl in my class which I had a crush before summer and now I do again. There are mixed signs. She shoots glances at me and we sometime make eye contact. When we are together talking and there is a friend of both of us, he bumps me and my crush together. he wrote her happy birthday on Facebook writing: hAppy birthdAy (my name starts with 'A'). when we are together at class she cleans my hood or touch me generally. my best friend arranged for us three to hang out in the weekend. he tells me that this friend pushing me and my crush doesn't mean anything. im just afraid of rejection because it will ruin our relationship. i have plenth of signs of affection from her but im still not sure :/
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Do u guys have mutual friends? if u do, u can ask them in a subtle way about how she feels about u? and beg them to not tell a word to her about this question of yours.
If not, I think if you really like her, and if you feel u can't do better than her ever, u should man up and go ask her out. Girls love to be asked out first. Plus its always good to know that someone likes u ;)
while u ask her tell her that it was ok if she didn't feel the same and that u dont want this beautiful friendship to die over such things.
third option would be to just see if she texts often, tries to search for u in the school, or tries to be with u more. try sending her a mail and see how soon she replies or send her a text and see how soon she replies to u. Girls who r really into a guy would not leave an opportunity to show their interest in an obvious way to the guy so look out for such signs and if they all r positive and u feel that its not just you whos trying to make the moves, I think u should go upto her and ask hr confidently.
all the best :)0