heya so im an 18 year old girl in her freshmen year of college whose never had a boyfriend and guys just dont seem interested. people are always saying im naturally pretty due to the fact i don't wear a lot of makeup etc. i am pretty active and fit and enjoy ski and snowboarding and other cool outdoor activities. i work in Hollister so i know i can't be that unattractive but still i get no attention. im doing a fairly geeky maths based course but its not like people can tell that by looking at me. im pretty into partying and clubbing and have been since i was 16 (sneaking in etc) and have been to a few festivals and been to the infamous Magaluf but still have only had casual hookups and never gone further than kissing. my friends all say guys are totally 'in to me' and they always fancy me but i never get any attention. so whats happening? any advice guys?
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when you say 'a lot of makeup' do you mean none, or literally some? no girl, no matter how hot she is without makeup, looks worse off with a decent amount of makeup to highlight their features. When people say that to you, are they hinting for you to wear more? Not garishly more, but just 'more'. clothes also help that initial hook for a guy, but after that it's also conversation. are you easy to talk to from a guy's point of view, do you give and take in conversation, joke, smile, give signals by 'inadvertent' touches etc. are you maybe missing the guys' signals?0