When do u do stuff in a relationship?

When in a relationship would u start to do sexual things but not sexy nd when would u start having sex in relationship


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  • Every relationship is different. Thus there are no set rules on when you start having sex. The guy and girl should talk about it ahead of time. Make sure you talk with each other about birth control also.

    Usually things progress with kissing, caressing, handjobs or blowjobs, fingering or oral on the girl before sex. Sometimes sex happens on a one nighter or first date. The key is not to rush things and make sure the girl is part of the process instead of the guy groping around. It is great if you talk about sex. Don't be embarrassed, ask the girl if it is ok to take things to the next level. Never forget a condom. Use one every time no matter what.

    You will find when the time comes that sex is wonderful and it sure beats jerking off which 99% of guys your age do. Your thoughts?

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What Girls Said 4

  • for both... the partners should feel ready for it

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    • After how long would u do it though

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    • We both ready but we nervous to say

    • no need to say just do it slowly

  • When you are ready. With my boyfriend it was on our first date but with a different man, it could have been later.

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    • How long would u wait though

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    • We both ready nervous to actually do it

    • Then don't do it for now. There is no urge to do it. You both have to feel ready and at ease. Take your time, even if you think you wait a lot. Begin with kisses, cuddles and when you feel relax, begin with foreplay. Those things take time, especially when you're a teenager.

  • When it feels right

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  • The things will start when both are ready. Sex comes after the connection

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