When I date people, sometimes I get really bored or I feel like we would just be better off as friends, but I don't want to hurt their feelings, so I start making them think that they want to break up. Basically, I start asking them "why are you so distant lately" etc. not exactly picking fights but I guess kind of manipulating them into thinking that it was their idea to break up so I don't crush them out of the blue. In a way, am I being kind of thoughtful because I don't want them to be as hurt, or am I a complete jerk for doing so? I'm an honest person, it's not like I lie to them or pull crazy stuff.
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Honestly, its fucked up to an extent. But ur obviously a smart girl. If it keeps them from hurting ur doing the right thing in my opinion. I think its a great idea. Dont feel bad about it. Just dont use ur amazing brain and skills to hurt people. But honestly, cheers to u foreal1