So I'm 17 and I've never kissed a guy, but I've had 3 boyfriends (I know it's weird). The guy I'm in a relationship with now wants to kiss me and I'm seeing him soon but I don't know how to kiss, all of my friends say "it comes naturally" but that doesn't help. I know I'm over thinking it but I can't help it because I have anxiety. Can someone just please tell me how to kiss and what I should do with my hands?
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This may sound a bit weird, but hopefully helps, and I think after you understand so you will feel better. I have anxiety too and didn't have my first kiss until I was older than you.
Have you had a soda or a drink lately with a straw? The sucking motion to get the drink to your lips is the same thing, except your lips are connected to another person. And this is not 'french', this is just a simple kiss.
You should leave your mouth slightly open before the kiss, I'm not talking much, just enough so you can breathe.
Practice this in the dark on your bicep, it's an area that doesn't get kissed and it sensitive enough, but not erotic, where you will be able to feel what your lips are doing. It should also help train you so that you are used to doing this eyes closed.
So, when the time comes, don't worry about hands or anything atm. Once you get close enough to rub nose-to-nose it's time to tilt head, close eyes, and gently 'drink' the taste from your bf's lips! :)
Enjoy!! Good luck!1