just curious, want to weed them out and such, and what makes a guy commit?
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Alright. Stop right here. There are NO definite signs. DO NOT follow any list that says such and such are signs he's a player because,
Firstly, a genuine guy make display the exact same signs however, being the genuine guy he is, he may not even be aware of the mannerisms he is using and consequently the messages he is sending.
Secondly, a player, if he is good at being one, will never use a single, shall we call it, method. There are always a few ways to go about being a player be that through romantic gestures (basically saying the same thing, romantically, in a 101 ways) or by befriending your friends, gaining their trust and thus gaining your truth (A player knows a girls friends are the key to her trust, get her friends to like you and your half way there).
So, what to do? Well, observe, watch, test. Always be aware and know he may be misleading you or has a hidden agenda. Do that with every guy and you cut the risk of hurting your feelings in half. I was a player once, I have slept with 207+ ish women, that is most certainly not something I am proud of but I know what I am talking about (How I know the exact number and how I managed to pull that off is another story all together) but listen to what I am saying, we guys may be dumb, no doubt about that, but there are a pattern to how you girls think, what makes you tick and how to get from a stranger to a FWBs in less than no time at all.1