I've met this guy on an online dating site. We've been dating for about a month and I see this guy at least once a week. He initiates text messaging, sets up dates several days in advanced, and we even cuddled when I came over his place (he cooked me dinner).
I didn't see him at all this passed week (but he did ask me if I was near his work since he was going on for lunch). All seems great and we have been going on a slow pace with our dating. I was a bit disappointed since he didn't make plans this weekend (I also initiate plans once in a while). I would see him logged on during the weekend and he hasn't gotten in contact with me (he left me hanging on our last text conversation).
I noticed that he updated his dating profile. He put up a new picture and changed up his bio. We aren't exclusive (we haven't had the talk and I believe it's way to early to bring up that conversation) but is he losing interest in me?
I try to be patient and assume that he is busy, but it makes me nervous how he is still looking around for something "better," while I am very interested in only him.
What should I do? What is going on through his mind? How should I look at all of this? It's making me insane and desperate and I don't like feeling this way.
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I will not lie to you, warmhugs, I am a straight shooter and with him putting a new profile on and changing his bio, he could very well Be------Out there again. And with a few more signals that may be a Raised Red flag to boot, you need to be on your guard now, look for further signs and be your own detective.
If you both are not 'Exclusive,' Official as well, then it probably is too soon to have the talk just yet. However, if he keeps you 'Hanging' any more, puts you on a back burner, you need to find out what's going on behind his own cozy curtain.
If you stand for this, you will always stoop to whatever poop he decides to throw your way. He may feel he can play the field, has no strings attached but that doesn't mean this bird has to leave you standing there with egg all over your face. He needs to tell you whether or not he wants his cake and eat it to so you are not left in the looking for him lurches.
Good luck. xx0