If a woman has sex with you on the third date, does something shift in your perception of her? Say you both got drunk and end up having sex, do you no longer see her as relationship material after that?
If yes, does this happen even if during the first two dates, you thought that maybe she had long-term potential? Also, is this true even for men in their mid-late 30s and the woman is in that age range?
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Like all the guys said I don't think it would matter for the average guy when you decided to have sex.
I do think an exception would be a conservative guy- like religious types. They would probably be put off by a girl trying so soon.
But with most people who aren't too conservative about sex it shouldn't be a problem when you have sex with the guy you're seeing.
If the guy is continuing to spend time with you outside of the bedroom and you guys happened to click well, go ahead! It's consensual and you're both adults.
For me personally I wouldn't have sex so early because I Like to be in a committed relationship for that, but you aren't doing anything wrong by any means :)
I hope he continues to treat you well. If he's a jerk he will just want to hang out in the bedroom most likely and won't make much effort to take you on dates and things like that. Just look to see if he's continuing to show interest in you and go from there!1
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