I always turned up late to my dates and today in particularly, I was being a total idiot, messing up my time management and came 2 hours late to the destination. When I texted him I was there, he replied this:
" I just left. I have work in an hour. Hence why I said meet up at half past ten. Even if I didn't have work though, I have better things to do than wait for someone who doesn't even respect me enough to show up on time."
Did I hurt him? Frustrate him or anger him? The good thing is that I still have his book so I have an excuse to talk to him by returning it. What should I do?
- It sounds like he doesn't care anymore. :'(0% (0)7% (1)4% (1)Vote
- He feels hurt. You aren't taking this seriously and he thinks you don't really want him.30% (3)36% (5)33% (8)Vote
- He feels angry and frustrated.10% (1)14% (2)12% (3)Vote
- Both angry and hurt as well as frustrated.60% (6)43% (6)51% (12)Vote
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I think the latest I've ever been for a date is five minutes, and that was with me texting her saying I'd just gotten off the subway, and would be right there.
You say you're always late! Break that habit, right now.
In the last six months, only one girl I've dated has bothered showing up on time. I'm sick of it, like I should be grateful they're even showing up at all to a date they agreed to come on?
I totally agree with his statement. He waited much longer than he needed to and got no explanation or warning you were running ridiculously late? You owe him an apology, he owes you less than nothing.3