Met online. Talked for two days. Met on the third. Had a long, nice first date. That went so well we kissed multiple times, made out and extra stuff. Ended up cuddling a bit, but then he started pleading me to be his. How much he knew this was going fast but that he really liked me and had a nice connection. Wanted us to keep seeing each other, but already exclusively. Even asked me if I wanted him to shut down his dating profile.
Is this a red flag? (desperation, creepy, etc.) I thought he was a nice guy and got along fine with him. And I want to see him again, but this seems really fast. Like frequent texts and calls, languorous kisses, hand holding, kisses on the forehead, attempted PDA... and then this. He seems like a pretty insecure and nervous guy who at time over thinks and does things, I think that might be the reason. What should I do? Run for the hills or see how it goes? And what does this say about him (or even me) as a potential mate?
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So a guy that you have a really great connection with is really into you, and wants an exclusive relationship, and you think that is a red flag. You women are never satisfied. Constantly I hear women on hear whining about men not wanting a relationship, and the moment a guy wants one a little too soon, women freak out thinking it is a red flag. Do you single women see why you are alone?
Lots of people don't like dating more than one person at a time, and want the same level of commitment from the person they are dating. The idea that it is okay to date a bunch of different people at the same time is a fairly new idea. You are either ready to be in a committed relationship or you aren't. If you are not then tell him you aren't there yet. He can either accept it or move on to another girl.0