I think he has a girlfriend, I am not sure, but I made myself clear that I am not the booty call type and I have been ignoring him for quite some time now. He called my house phone, and my mother picked up and he was talking to my mother saying how me and mother and father, and my brother should go out, and he said "I have been trying to go out with you guys for over a year now" Then he said "Are we going out this weekend? Is Sara coming?" My mom said "Of course! She's 21" He said "She's 21? I never knew that! If I would have known, I would have taken her out for drinks" When he damn well knows I am 21, I don't know what kind of weird head game that is, but it seems he is trying to go out with me and is using my parents as a way to go out with me.
I don't get it because I already told him I am not the booty call type, and I have been ignoring him and not talking to him. So why does he keep trying to hang out with me then? Is it just an innocent hang out? Or is he trying to hook up with me?
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1. If you are having doubts about if it's an innocent thing or he's trying to hook up with you, I'd like to know why and when did the situation come up that you mentioned to him that you are not the booty call types - answer that and we can opine better :-)
2. He's sure interested in you in some way but like a lot of others scared of rejection and is intimidated which is why like the others he's hanging around your family in a bid to be with you :-)
3. Ignore someone who's interested in you but he still has access to you &/or your parents, work place, friends circle etc he's bound to keep buzzing around - can't help it unless you do something really drastic about it THAT unless you want him to hang around even if just out of curiosity :-D
3. One basic thing about most guys which is: Beautiful girl + Confident + Smiling all the while + Attractive Body + Mingles around & speaks freely with guys + Kind hearted / helpful = even if not easy to acquire chances are good (and will continue to persist even if pushed away UNLESS the push is real hard & intimidating enough) - my girl's that way and so are a few friends of mine, I keep dealing with these all the time lol0