It just gets irritating when the only options you have are people you don't even want to be with, no matter how much I change up my image or be myself around somebody I never get any closer to the girls I actually want to be with but the girls I don't want give me all their effort and it just makes me feel bad for rejecting them what am I doing wrong?
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ok, if you are changing yourself to be liked, then girls and guys will see through that. it's not worth it. you are still young. yeah, this sounds cheesy or sappy but seriously, the right one comes along with time. and how do you define the girls you DO like and the girls you DON'T like? appearance? personality? style? if you seriously don't like a girl, kindly tell them that. if you want, give them a chance (you never know, you may grow to like and even love the girl). the thing is, NO ONE actually has a type they like. the one we like and eventually fall in love with BECOMES our type. it's pretty true. i've seen many couples who at first seemed to be the worst of enemies, but then they surprise everyone and become the most lovey-dovey couple around1