I'm sure this is an old and redundant question, but why is it that the guy who is helpful, kind, and genuinely caring towards others doesn't usually get the girl. I've been placed in the "friends" category with at least 20 women whom I had been hoping to date. Those women would then go out and find a guy that they inevitably broke up with and either came back to me for support before going out with another one of those guys, or just disappeared from my life entirely. Seriously, is it my looks, or something else?
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I did like 'nice guys' as in 'friend' guys if that's what you mean. But they didn't like me back! Or at least not tell me but they did seem like they did. It really depends on the girl. I actually found the nice guy attract first though... so he really had to look good which is why I became his friend. lol Yep it's shallow. But that's the truth. I find a lot of 'nice guys' were nerdy and did not care how they looked. The one I did use to have a crush on looked good and was really smart and nice and a good friend. I definitely would not go out with a jerk though- someone who talked sh*t. That's a total turn off.0