Basically I had a talk with a close friend of mine yesterday telling him that I only thought of him as a brother and I wasn't ever going to be interested in him as more than that. He was alright with that when we were speaking, he handled it great actually.
But he then spoke about how he was feeling about it to a mutual friend and he said things like he felt like he wasn't good enough and that he was just giving up. Is this normal - I worry because he has had suicidal thoughts as of late, and was just thinking how close an eye I should be keeping on him
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Time heals that wound, check up on him every so often, but also understand that you are why he's feeling that way, so keep a distance as well. Note I'm not blaming you, if anything I'd blame him, but you should understand that there is really only so much you can personally do.1