I have 4 close friends. One is dating and has been with over 30 guys. Second friend has been with over 100. Third has often casual sex and like 3 guys want to date her. Fourth friend has a boyfriend but 2 other guys chase her. They are all amazing people and I love them. I feel like we are quite similar people too. But Im just the lonely one.
Im 19, kissless virgin. Im not saving myself, I just haven't gotten any chance with guys. I dont know why. Im a bit chubby right now because I've been really sick but Im losing weight now. But Im not fat. I've done modeling but Im 5'11 tall. Im black&white mixed so I have darker skin. Or is there something wrong with my personality? I have guys as friends but thats it.
So why fo you think guys dislike me?
- too fat/ too uglyVote A
- too tallVote B
- dark skinVote C
- personalityVote D
- something else?Vote E
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, I don't think it's very healthy either to be 19 and have been with 30 guys already yet alone a 100. I guess just put a bit of make-up (i've heard a lot of guys say they don't like too much make-up), dress cute and be confident. I know it's easier said than done but confidence shows and people (guys and girls) are going to be attracted to someone who stands tall and exudes confidence. It's was more attractive than you think. And if you stay with the same friends, never meet new people then you're not going to meet someone new that might be what you're looking for. Try to get out of your comfort zone. If you're in college join clubs (without your friends). If you're not I don't know take up a language or what not. And if you like a guy and he smiles at you keep eye contact and smile back. I used to break eye contact all the time and they would think I wasn't interested. I was just like you before and let me tell you I don't think there's anything wrong with the way you look and your personality :)1