So first off, I am not saying you are cheating while you waiting to break up in person! Maybe it is just emotional, but you have talked to this other person and know you want to leave your current situation for a relationship with this new person.
Would it be kinder to call, and behind that persons back still talk to the new person, or wait?
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The WORST thing you could do is wait around being unhappy because you're trying to do things the "right way". I would say that a phone call is the best bet. People will say that breaking up over the phone is "wrong" and "disrespectful" but with a long distance relationship there's not many options. Plus in my opinion, it's more wrong and disrespectful to both yourself and your partner to stay in a relationship that you are not happy in just because you're trying to "do the right thing". End the current relationship as civilly as you can via phone call. And if you are definitely sure that you do not want to be in a relationship with this person anymore (and it's not just the hardships of long distance) than do NOT by any means let the current partner coax you into waiting until you see each other so you can talk... most of the time that just leads to guilt trips and unneeded drama. Wishing you the best!1