I'm a shy, traditional kind of girl. Nerdy and goody goody in that many people know me and call me "sweetheart", "nicest girl ever", etc. I don't drink, do drugs, smoke, etc.
Not that those things make a person bad but hopefully you get what I mean.
Throughout my life I feel like guys overlook me a lot. As a kid I got no attention at all until I was about 17.
I have only briefly dated one guy and he was terrible. I picked the wrong guy, completely. He was a manipulative liar and didn't care about me at all. I was just an object to him. He did things like touch me when I didn't want to be touched, lie to me about the kind of guy he is, and said he wanted me only because I was so great but he was hooking up with other girls behind my back.
I have a nice body and I present myself well and I have worked so much on my shyness. I also try to be a good person and be a dateable version of myself. I dress really well and I'm much more outgoing and I even approach guys I like.
I've grown a lot. But I'm insecure about feeling desirable, especially after my horrible dating experience.
I do get told I'm pretty and I like the way I look. I've put my picture on sites just to get feedback and people rate me highly- 7 to 8 on average.
But I just feel undesirable somehow. Can someone please help?
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we trend to be our own harshest critics. take the opinions others have bestowed upon you and accept them. plus its a nice little confidence booster.1