so, I am 22, and have never been on an actual date until this last Friday . and never had my first kiss till then too. The guy i'm seeing is incredibly sweet to me, texts me every morning to tell me good morning. We get a long pretty well, make each other laugh, and in that department it seems all good. But there are a few concerns.
He's 29 and a father. I don't want to be judgmental, and i don't mind the age, and I love kids... I'm just worried, he could be looking for way more than I am at the moment. Like I said, this could be my first relationship, and not sure i can handle something so serious so fast. My head is telling me to tell him how I feel and that I can't do this right now, and should find someone with less experience than he has, but my heart is telling me that despite appearances he seems to be an amazing sweet man, who will end up caring deeply for me, and I for him... I guess what I'm asking is, would it be worth taking the risk that one of us could get seriously hurt?
- Are you crazy? You're a baby, run!Vote A
- Slow it downVote B
- Just be friends if you canVote C
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Start by being just friends, until you know the guy better. You're probably still in college, or beginner in your job. He's making his career (if he succeeds) That's quite a difference.
Chances are, his ex will hate your guts and let it know the children. You'll have to compose with the children's grandmother too: there's no guarantee she'll like you.0