he has tried to explain that the relationship he was in since he was 15 has left him feeling like he has lost a lot of his youth, and he doesn't want to get old and regret not doing anything, but he can't commit right now. I know he can see himself with me in the future, that he can fall in love with me, and then he gets really upset if he thinks I'll never talk to him again. When we're together we're always laughing, always messing around, and in public we are always holding each other. My only problem is how busy he is (works full time and in a band that tours at least a few times a year, but only for a few weeks at a time) If I don't want to have sex, we go out to eat or watch a movie, go on a walk, etc instead, there is no argument. He pays on dates, is very interested and polite to my family. When I'm sad, I can count on him, and he has gotten me out of bad situations before and held me while I cried. I have cut him off about two times, maybe three if I am remembering wrong, and he tries and tries to get a hold of me until I talk to him. I want to be with him if the reason he can't commit doesn't have to do with me, but if it does, I am NOT willing to be the back up girl. what do you guys think?
- the reason is definitely not youVote A
- the reason might be youVote B
- the reason is youVote C