Hey all! I'm somewhat new here, and I don't really know how to go about doing this, so I apologize if I'm doing this wrong, but I'll get to the point. So I have a HUGE thing for this girl, But she doesn't reciprocate the feelings. She's one of those independent, non girly-girls. She works on cars, drag races, etc. Another issue, is our physical appearances. She's a tiny little thing, (104 pounds), while I am a bit more heavy set. I'm working on getting into shape, trying to get more into her interests, but I can't seem to even get through to her. Another issue is that she dated a friend of mine, and still harbors feelings for him. I do everything i can to be there for her (Talk, buy her things if she needs it, Just be there to listen, etc.) but it doesn't seem to work. I just need some advice on how to even TRY to get it in her mind that though I'm not the most attractive guy in the bunch, I can be the best one in the long run. It's just killing me, hanging out with her every day, driving around for hours upon hours on end, just talking about whatever. Yet it's like I don't exist as anything more to her. Please, help.
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That's the thing dude, If she isn't returning any attention or feelings then its pretty standard she's not into you.
The best thing you can only do is befriending her and maybe there is a possible chance but I wouldn't even bother since it will strike you hard in the long run..
However, you didn't mention you asked her out yet, I mean you can wing it and straight up tell her how you feel (shows how much of a man you are). If she rejects you then move on bro. I've been there before.0