So I started dating this guy officially last weekend but we've been seeing each other for a couple weeks now. He's made it clear that he doesn't want me to meet his family. He says it's because he finds them annoying and doesn't like involving them in his life, but I sort of don't know how I feel about this, because he's basically met my entire family. Then there's what happened today, so I'm hardcore PMSing and just had an overall shitty day and since we are both pretty busy we only see each other on weekends. Anyway we're skyping and he tells me he's going to see Mockingjay with a couple friends (who are all bringing their girlfriends) and he mentions as a side note that he's going with "a pretty girl" so that he wouldn't be fifth wheeling so I brush it off and then he mentions he has the whole day off tomorrow (first I'm hearing of this) and I don't mind that he's spending it with his friends it's just that next week he's going to Washington and since I'm busy this weekend with research papers and preparing for my drivers exam and since I finish at 2 on Fridays it would've been the ideal time to hang out, and it also means I won't see him for two weeks. This aspect does bother me because we have really bad text-chemistry and even online everything's just super awkward because he's always preoccupied with something else and the conversation dies quickly. It's really early in the relationship and I'm already feeling like "the side hoe" and if this is any implication as to how the relationship will persist I don't like it because although I'm not super gorgeous or anything I do have better things to do than waste my time in something that's going no where.
Any advice as to what I should do?
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Lose him. Find someone who has grown up a little.1