she is my gf since 2 days, and she is polish. she feels alone sometimes, and recently, someone she knows from her hometown moved over to a city not very far away from her. this is the 2nd time she sees him in 2 weeks time. they watched football together at her place, and today they want to go clubbing, she tells me he is just a good friend. she does sent me lovely notes, and when ever we are together, im at her place, making out, being intimate. she recently was still pregnant from me, but she had a misscariage. i dont like it a single bit that she is going to a club, while she should be recovering from her miscariage. and especially with some other guy, i should trust her, and i know if i say anything about it, she probably gets angry. i really dont know what to do... im thinking about sending her a short message, or dropping by, telling her, that i wish her a nice evening and that i trust her as my girlfriend. and that i hope she won't do anything irresponsible, she has a 7 yo daughter, just on her own behalf, that of her child and me. should i trust her, she does tell me she goes clubbing, if she had secrets it would be worse , but i still dont like it one little bit. how should i aproach this? or should i go to that club myself
What should I do, im really worried?
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Don't tell her, "I trust you but I hope you won't do anything irresponsible" because obviously that means you DON'T trust her and you're lying to her. And she would become angry that you think she is irresponsible.
Maybe going to the club is helping her to recover from her miscarriage. The distraction may be just what she needs.
You could ask to go to the club with her; I see no harm in that.
I honestly think that she sees this guy as just a friend and that she isn't doing anything wrong.0
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