I met this guy the other day, who is the brother of a friend of mine. We chatted together for about half an hour, then he asked if I would like to hang out with him sometimes on the weekends, like go to the movies and such. I hesitated and then he said, "only if you're comfortable with that - I mean, we could go with a few of your friends too."
So I said, "oh yeah, that could be nice."
Then he said, "Cool - can I get your number then?"
So we swapped mobile numbers. 2 days later, he texted me asking if I was free the next weekend (8 days in advance) to hang out with him. I said how I would be busy with seeing other friends and going to church. He then asked what church I go to and I told him that I go to a Pentecostal church, and he said that he goes to a Mormon church, and asked if he could come to my church with me. Like... Pentecostal and Mormon churches are SO different...
So anyway, I've only just recently started wearing make-up and feminine clothes, so I'm not used to guys showing interest in me... So I'm not even sure how to tell when a guy is showing interest or when he just wants to be friends.
I've had a couple other guys ask me out since I started wearing make-up, but it was more clear to me in those situations that those guys were interested.
- Interested in dating you33% (1)50% (1)40% (2)Vote
- Wants to be friends with you and see if it leads to more67% (2)50% (1)60% (3)Vote
- Wants to just be friends with you0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- Other0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
Is it wrong for me to hang out with this guy if I'm only interested in friendship? He hasn't actually asked to date me so I don't really feel like I can say, "hey I just want to be friends."