how do girls feel about stretchmarks on guys? if been living alone for almost 2 years. and surprise surprise, like most guys that live on their own, i ate way too much junkfood and gained some weight fast, to the point that i now have stretch marks on my waist and inner tighs. im controlling what i eat now, but the stretch marks aren't going anywhere. i was always really shy, specially when it comes to women and i never had much self esteem. but after this, i just feel like crawling into a hole and not talk to any girl again, because i fear beeing made fun off. so please be very honest about this. i know that some women have really problems with their stretch marks, wich by the way never bothered me at all. but what would you think when you found out that a guy you are dating has some? i really feel gross when i see them in the mirror. again, please be honest! thank you
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There's products you can get to help with stretch marks if you're that insecure. But believe it or not, there's a lot of girls out there with the same issue... and some of them really were never too heavy and whatnot. Once they fade, most people don't really notice unless they're looking for them. If you're in good or decent shape (or in any kind of shape, as long as you two are attracted to one another), there's no reason for a girl to harshly judge you for having stretch marks, especially considering they're like scars. I mean, no one is going to judge someone for having a scar where they had their kidney removed, right?
So don't worry about it. Don't call attention to it and I bet no one will notice. If you ever get into a relationship where you really want to address it, by all means, let her in on you're insecurity and I bet she'll tell you exactly what I did.
Unless she's a stupid... insert expletive here.1