Is there a way to tell if he's had sex recently?

[Anonymous]

Are there signs that it's been a while since he's had sex? Like will he come faster or slower or be rushed if it's been a while? My first time with him and I'm not sure if it's really been "a few months" like he's said or if he's a player.

[soshyy27]

guys cum faster if it's been a while, because they haven't had a chance to build up holding it in and practice self discipline. its just like drinking alcohol... if you haven't drank in a while then those first two glasses of jack could make you drunk. youv'e got to start drinking to build your tolerance back up

[Asker]

Haha good comparison. But what if he Jacks off before?

[soshyy27]

if you can't take his word and trust him then you don't need to be with him.. simple as that.

[WhiteRaven]

The "he comes faster if it's been a while" is true. But what if he masturbated? Maybe he did that to stay longer for you? I don't know.
i heard of people saying how they would jack off before having sex so that they could keep up for a longer time to satisfy their girl.

[Anonymous]

Not really, no. If he hasn't had sex in awhile, it COULD mean he'd shoot faster. But then again, he may have jacked off recently and/or frequently, which could have a similar effect. So not really possible to know without asking him.

[Asker]

So jacking off could have same type of effect? What if he Jacks off before we meet up, would that help him last longer? I've heard that's a good way for a guy to the prolong the fun when actually with someone.

[Opinion Owner]

For sure. A guy typically will last longer the second or third time, so if he jacks it before the date it will make him last longer. How often do you fuck this guy?

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for most helpful. How's it going?

[Outofthegrey]

Cut off his penis and count the rings, duh.

[creativeusername101]

you asked, he told you. if you don't believe or trust him for any reason, then move on.

[JackKerouac77]

Lack of honesty and trust = red flag

[Asker]

Long story , not looking to explain. We're just friends with benefits

[JackKerouac77]

In that case... there's no way to tell with a guy or girl besides some sort of biological examination. Just ask him to wrap his tool.

[Asker]

Biological examination?

[JackKerouac77]

Sure. Girls can be examined for microscopic tears in the vagina and be assumed to have had intercourse recently (or done something else there). It's by no means perfect, but better than nothing. They do this during rape investigations.

[EngineerGeek]

Most guys also release a much smaller load of semen if they've have sex recently coz it takes a couple of days to build up again. As others have mentioned, if he's jerked off on his own recently, it's not gonna help.

[Anonymous]

I come faster if it's been a while.

[Asker]

Thank you for sharing