Guys, at what point do you ask a girl to be your girlfriend?

I'm still new to dating so, I don't really know how this all works. Is it after a certain time period? After a certain amount of dates? When you know you really like her? etc.


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  • There's no specific time period, or number of dates, but it certainly takes some time. It varies, but I usually know whether I like her or not fairly quickly, but then there's still a ton I don't know about her. As I get to know more about a girl, it will again influence my perception of her, and make her like more or less. So I definitely need enough time to reinforce my first 'judgment' that I like her.
    There are also other factors at play, like where I am right now in my life, how are things at my job, and my situation right now - eg do I have enough time for her? It all influences whether I'm ready to step into a steady relationship.


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  • I ask when I am most certain she won't say no. Timing is key.

  • I have no freaking clue. I've never had a girlfriend. I write just to demonstrate that he might be confused about when to ask you to be his girlfriend.

    • I still appreciate your input though.

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