SO GIRLS ; Which guy would you MAKE eye contact with or which guy would you AVOID eye contact with... READ BELOW?

[Anonymous]

So if you were walking past a public place like a bus stop and you saw 3 guys sitting at the bus stop.

One guy is Cute looking and listening to music.

Second is guy is also cute looking but a bit built.

Third guy is Really Good looking and is listening to music.

3 OF THE GUYS STARE AT YOU WHEN YOU WALK PAST.

So WOULD you make eye contact with any of the guys or AVOID eye contact with any of the guys.

Girls opinion thanks.

[bijinbijinbijin]

two of your guys seem like the same guy

I would honestly avoid all of them. Of corse I would notice them which means my eyes were on them at some point even if it was just for a milisecond because you have to be aware of your sourroundings if you want to be safe. I never feel safe if I am at a bus stop by myself sourounded by men, even if they all have attractive faces. That is why I am glad I drive.

guys really over think things. a lot of times people are not looking at you becasue they think you are attractive. Many times people are looking at you becasue you are just there. Also our periphreal vision allows us to see a wide rage of things so if it may have seemed that the girl was only looking at one guy and then she shifted her eyes and kept on moving then she actually looked at all of the guys.

[Asker]

Interesting answer :)

[snowwhite84]

I'm a confident girl, I'd most likely make eye contact with all three and flash my famous smile+blush before just keep walking past. If they are all good looking, you have the problem of shy and timid girls not having the confidence to look at all. So, from your description you can't tell who would necessarily be more open to someone walking up and asking for a number... Then you can't tell who would the girl would be more attracted to and attraction does make the choice a lot easier.

[Asker]

Thanks :-) I
IF you were to AVOID eye contact / NOT make it obvious you are looking , when the 3 guys are STARING , whom would it be?

WHICH GUY WOULD IT BE?

[snowwhite84]

I'd say the muscular guy.. I have no intentions of having a conversation and the other two are wearing headphones

[Asker]

coz u would be intimidated by a muscular guy?

[snowwhite84]

No.. Nothing about intimidation - I just wouldn't care for a conversation. The other two guys wouldn't take out their headphones unless I walked up and started a conversation. Muscular guy however would leave more of a chance to start a conversation.

[Asker]

Thanks for ur comments,, appreciate it :-) & by the way you have got a really catchy wink on ur profile pic = D

[snowwhite84]

Hahaha! No problem at all :3 and thankyouu

[Kshppatel]

Dat eye wink

[Asker]

Hi... One question... Why would you look at Guy # 1 when Guy # 3 is making eye contact with u?

[snowwhite84]

Theoretically, if I wanted to walk up and meet the guy without the headphones. Now, if I wanted to talk but didn't want to initiate the conversation Id walk up and stand next to the three guys, wait for someone to talk to me. Whomever talked first would be the guy who I would be the most interested in because he has guts to walk up and start a conversation. It would appear that he has confidence, and majority of women like that. Let's cut that down to the two guys, 1st and 3rd, I would walk up and smile, whoever had the nicer smile out of the two I would initate the conversation with. A genuin smile is more attractive than a half-ass smile you greet strangers with. *or at least what I do when I'm walking past someone* So, it doesn't matter who I'm talking to out of the three it's just the one who puts the most effort into making a conversation happen.

[Asker]

I really like ur approach :) Keep it up = D & Thanks again : ))))

[DivaMonae]

Okay well first off to be honest I'd probaly make eye contact with all three of them if they're really that attractive.

But if I had to pick only one of them and considering I dnt actually have a complete description of them to decide which one I'm attracted to the most I would have to go woth guy #2 because I can get his attention the easiest. Also because who doesn't like a guy with muscles? ;)

[DivaMonae]

Oh I just realized that you said they all stare at me... But anyway I'm going to be honest I'd probaly check out all 3 of them but I wouldn't act on it myself. I'd keep walking, act as if I didn't notice them, and wait for whichever one of them to approach me.

[Asker]

Thanks :-) Well you have to consider that GUY 1 & 2 are the same LOOKS WISE except guy 1 is NOT BUILT and guy 2 is BUILT.

Guy 3 is GORGEOUS look wise.

[DivaMonae]

Yeah, I was just going to say once I realized that you said that I got all of their attention that that changes the game. The only reason why I picked guy #2 was because I thought that he would be my best bet because the other guys are probably distracted by their music. But yeah I usually let guys send off the signals, do the noticing, and make the first move.

But to answer your question I would proabbly go with guy #1. Yes I'd be attracted to all three guys but guy number one sounds more like my type and realistic. The kind of guy I'm looking for I mean I'm a teen after all.

In my head Guy #2 is an athlete, Guy #3 is a model, and guy #1 is a boy that looks like Justin Bieber.

[Asker]

Thanks :-) IF you were to AVOID eye contact / NOT make it obvious you are looking,.

WHICH GUY WOULD IT BE?

[DivaMonae]

Guy #1

[Asker]

Thanks:-) Why is that?

[DivaMonae]

Reread my comment 15min ago... The but to answer your question part.

[Asker]

haha, silly me x ( Thanks for ur comments... Appreciate it :-)

[Asker]

Hi... One question... Why would you look at Guy # 1 when Guy # 3 is making eye contact with u?

[DivaMonae]

Well QA here's my jest ion for you... In that case why would I look at guy #3 or #1 when two is leaking eye contact with me?

I get that you said guy 3 is really good looking but you also said the other two guys were. Guy three just seems a bit unrealistic even though he's sitting right in front of me guy #1 is more of my style like an attractive but normal boy, at least in my head.

Like I said when I imagine #1 I see a guy resembling young Justin Bieber, guy #2 a jock wearing a lettermans jacket, and guy three ultimately a teenaged model and guy #1 seems like an average teenage boy which is the type of guy that I like someone that doesn't come along with popularity and fame.

[DivaMonae]

Here's some a few pics to make it more clear what I'm imagining in my head, and why I went with guy #1. (Ignore the fact that it's justin Bieber but and try to imagine him as a regular guy)

#1 upload.wikimedia.org/.../..._Bieber_-_My_World.png

#2 (guy on the left) 38.media.tumblr.com/...m6aqexe0KV1qddgv0o1_500.jpg

#3 www.google.com/search

[JackKerouac77]

LEMME GIVE 'EM A LOOKSIE

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[Asker]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAAHAH... = D

[agent_bubble]

It really depends on the girls view on what they find cute in a guy. Some girls might find the bigger built guy cute as others might fine guy 1 or 3 cute depending on the other factors the 3 guys have. However girls tend to think a guy with a more narrow chain is cute a guy who looks like a good fit for her and her style. Also it depends on how a guy publically presentes themself.

[Asker]

True :)

[xokittyxo]

hmm... i dont know if i would even look at any of them but im not the type to stare at people it makes me feel uncomfortable.. But if this happened to you and you a guy #3 and are interested in this girl if you happen to see her again just walk up and say hiiiii !!! dont be scared

[Asker]

ok thanks a lot :) My question is if you could see all three guys in your line of sight , why would you try and look in the eye of 2 guys, but quickly glance at the other guy and not look back in his direction?

[xokittyxo]

There's a possibility she may not have even been thinking anything along the lines of you guys being cute her mind could have been completely somewhere different

[sammy_31]

It would depend on their facial expressions and body language. I make eye contact a lot now, back in the day I hardly did though. Sometimes I laugh when I'm dead lock in eye contact but always apologize for my behavior lol

[Asker]

Which guy would you look in the eye and which guy would you avoid eye-contact with AT THE SAME TIME?

[sammy_31]

Maybe avoid the really built guy because he would intimidate me but I would make eye contact with the other 2 guys. It would be eye contact but not like some staring problem or something just a glance, smirk & just walk by.

[Asker]

so you LIKE the really built guy?

[sammy_31]

No, I mean I probably would just be scared lol Just because I avoid eye contact it doesn't mean I'm attracted. It can be but most likely isn't. If I like someone or appreciate their attractiveness I will glance at them, real quick though.

[Asker]

But in this case above since you say you would make eye contact with guys #1 & #3 , but avoid eye contact with guy#2, who would you fancy to be honest?

[sammy_31]

Gah they're similar but I guess the cute guy.

[Asker]

which Guy (number please)?

[sammy_31]

Guy #1

[Asker]

so you fancy Guy #1 out of the 3 guys?

[sammy_31]

Yes, I guess so.
Funny how I "liked" a guy based on him being "cute" & listening to music. Perhaps if it was more descriptive I would have had an easier time picking. They were too similar and basic to jump the gun & just pick one. lol

[Asker]

would you fancy the 2nd dude even though you avoid looking at his eyes or make eye contact?

[sammy_31]

If he had a really attractive face but didn't give a bad vibe.

[Asker]

But in the above situation u said you would avoid guy#2 and look at guys #1 and 3# . Why would you NOT fancy guys 2 and 3 ?

[sammy_31]

Why is this such a big deal? Are you one of those 3 guys?

[Asker]

i am sorry for bugging u... i understand... could you please answer the last comment before?

[sammy_31]

I'd just make eye contact with them all period. lol OMG.

[Asker]

ok thanks a lot :) My final question is if you could see all three guys in your line of sight , why would you try and look in the eye of 2 guys, but quickly glance at the other guy and not look back in his direction?

[sammy_31]

OMG I thought that was the last question? O_o
Okay, so I'd either be shy, too embarrassed or intimidated by his attractiveness.

[Asker]

haha... I am terribly sorry... My sincere apologies... Thank you very much for being patient and not insulting me with bad words... hahaa

Nice talking to ya and take care :)

[HappyGoDie]

I wouldn't make eye contact with guy 1 or 3. Listening to music has a way of putting up a barrier that makes it hard to approach a person.

I'm really curious though, why are you asking this question?

[Asker]

Which guy would you look in the eye and which guy would you avoid eye-contact with AT THE SAME TIME?

[BuchitaBuchys]

I'm a pussy when it comes to these things, so I would avoid eye contact with all of them if they're cute. I tend to get really red or nervous when I see a cute/attractive guy. :x
Childish, I know. But oh well :c

[Asker]

Which guy would you look in the eye and which guy would you avoid eye-contact with AT THE SAME TIME?

[BuchitaBuchys]

I'd look away from all of them, or pretend to check something on my phone like a text or something lol

But if I HAD to choose, I guess Guy 2 cuz he's the only one not listening to music. I think the universal sign of "I don't wanna talk" is having headphones or listening to music. So it'd be Guy 2. I would be more interested in Guy 1 though, but those headphones are just uninviting.

[Asker]

At the same time will you ignore Guy #3 ?

[MaskedSanity]

Err, there's 3 bits of eye candy sitting on a bench?

I'd look at all three, duh.

Your definition of good looking will differ from mine. I'd look at all three to determine which I find the best looking. :P

[Asker]

Thanks :-) IF you were to AVOID eye contact / NOT make it obvious you are looking,.

WHICH GUY WOULD IT BE?

[MaskedSanity]

The one I find least attractive, obviously.

[Asker]

Thanks: -) I thought you would say the 3RD GUY . ... Coz you would be INTIMIDATED to make eye contact with him.

[MaskedSanity]

I'm a pretty direct person, so I tend to shamelessly do what I want.

That, and I don't have to worry about rejection and such since I already have a boyfriend. Acknowledging someone's good looks will not affect me badly.

But it's true, most would look away in shyness.

[Asker]

I wish most girls were confident like u !! You should be a role model to the girls out there.

IF you were to focus looking/ staring on ONLY ONE GUY, who would it be?

[MaskedSanity]

Confidence comes with a little bit of nerve. I wasn't always like that.

I was a confident toddler, during school years I was EXTREMELY shy, and once I left - my confidence has slowly picked up again.

But I'd still stare at the one I found to be most attractive.

[Asker]

Well good on ya.

My last question is if the 3 guys were staring at you in the eye while walking past , would you stare back at all of the 3 guys?

Also for how many minutes would you do this?

[MaskedSanity]

Again, I tend to stare at the one, who is most attractive to me. But I'd have to look at all 3 to figure that out. :P

[Iron_Man]

Howdy

[MaskedSanity]

@Iron_Man

What can I do ya for, mate?

[Iron_Man]

Just saying hello Its been a long time

[Asker]

So u would ignore the other 2 guys who try to stare at you?

[MaskedSanity]

If I had 3 guys simultaneously staring at me, I'd feel a bit uncomfortable.

[Asker]

so would u avoid eye contact with all 3 guys if the stare at u at the same time

[MaskedSanity]

I honestly can't say for sure, because my reaction can often depend on what mood I'm in. Sometimes I'm in a "fuck it" mood and just stare back, sometimes I'll not look at anyone.

It's hard to say.

[Asker]

ok.. cool... Sorry for troubling u ,,,,, forgive me.

MY FINAL QUESTION IS...

Why would you avoid eye contact with one of the guys or NOT LOOK IN HIS DIRECTION before you even can figure out his face properly?

[MaskedSanity]

Staring is generally considered rude, especially when you do it to strangers. Perhaps it's the fear of being questioned over it?

When I notice someone ogling me from top to bottom, I make a point out of making eye contact and staring back in the exact same manner as a way of mocking their staring of myself.

[Asker]

Could u be intimidated for some reason by that guy you avoid eye contact, before figuring his face out?

[MaskedSanity]

Unless he was huge and scary, I don't think so?

[Asker]

Haahaha... true = P

I can only think of one question to end this discussion.

As you were saying that you would stare at the best looking guy out of the 3...

So, would you stare at him when he is looking at you/ in your direction OR would you stare when he is NOT looking at you?

[MaskedSanity]

Both. Depends on how much nerve I have that day, lol.

[Asker]

Cool :) Thank u very much for ur patience = D

Great talking to ya :)

[Asker]

Hi... One question... Why would you look at Guy # 1 when Guy # 3 is making eye contact with u?

[523206720]

the really good looking guy though I am largely unimpressed by looks. Religious faith matters to me a lot more than looks.

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

Religious faith matters more than good looks? Man you're a crazy biatch...

[Starsite]

She's crazy for what she believes in? Who are you to judge what's right or wrong for her. But of a nasty comment.

[Starsite]

Bit*

[Asker]

Spiritual girls are a blessing... I love to date one and marry one.

[justbeinghonest]

I don't avoid eye contact and I would probably talk to the guy NOT listening to music. Listening to music with headphones in a public place to me just means "don't fucking talk to me, keep moving"

[Asker]

If all didn't have headphones, who would you avoid looking in his direction?

[justbeinghonest]

The one that looks friendly I would smile to, the one that looks like he has a stick up his butt I would ignore.

[Asker]

haha nice one :)

[Letstrend]

If there would be 3 goodlooking guys looking at me while I was walking past, the last thing I would think about is where to look at.. I'd be focused on not falling over my own feet.. LMAO

[Asker]

Thanks :-) IF you were to AVOID eye contact / NOT make it obvious you are looking,.

WHICH GUY WOULD IT BE?

[Hostile97]

I'd avoid eye contact because they're guys, and if they are good looking chances are, they're already taken

[Asker]

haha... ur good & good-looking :)

[LovesTVDx]

The first guy. I'd be too intimidated to instigate eye contact with the others. I'd probably be too shy to hold it with the first one too haha tbf! Even when a guy I find attractive has tried to hold eye contact with me I completely look away :S

[Asker]

Thanks :) Well ur the shy type I guess... it's really nice = D

[Asker]

Hi... One question... Why would you look at Guy # 1 when Guy # 3 is making eye contact with u?

[LovesTVDx]

Naturally intimidated by attractive people haha

[LovesTVDx]

That's why I would break it rather*

[LovesTVDx]

Guy 1 would seem more approachable

[Asker]

also would you look at Guy # 1 in his eye/ direction but AVOID looking in Guy # 3's direction ?

[LovesTVDx]

Theoretically yes.

[Asker]

But the guy # 3 would think, that you like guy # 1 instead of him...

[LovesTVDx]

I probably would like guy 1 more though because subconsciously in my mind I've already thought guy 3 is out of my league

[Asker]

But if Guy #3 is trying hard to make eye contact with u coz he likes u , but u still look at Guy # 1 .

Why would u do that?

[LovesTVDx]

My own low self esteem. I'd just naturally look away or might think it was negative rather than positive. I'd be scared of rejection

[Lauren2410]

I would probably avoid eye-contact with all three, I am shy and insecure. If I did, I'd probably just take a quick glance at all of them and move on.

[Asker]

Which guy would you look in the eye and which guy would you avoid eye-contact with AT THE SAME TIME?

[Lauren2410]

well I can't be focused on two guys at once, so I'm undecided between 1 and 3 . I don't know how built are we talking about, so the second guy might be too much for my taste, or too intimidating :)

[Asker]

out of guys 1 and 3 , which guy would you look in the eye and which guy would you avoid making eye contact?

[existing_not_living]

I'd probably make eye contact with all three of them. If they are a guy and they are attractive, that's enough for me, LOL.

[Asker]

Thanks :-) IF you were to AVOID eye contact / NOT make it obvious you are looking,.

WHICH GUY WOULD IT BE?

[existing_not_living]

I'm gonna go with guy #1 because I'm the weird girl who is actually turned off when a guy is too attractive. Haha, I also don't care for muscles all that much either. So guy #1 would probably make me the most nervous.

[Asker]

Haha... Very interesting... I was expecting you to say that you would avoid eye contact with Number 3 but you said Number 1.

IT IS VERY INTERESTING AND IT'S NOT WEIRD: EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT.

I WANTED UR OPINION : THANKS. :-)

[existing_not_living]

Well I'm glad I could give it and thanks :)

[Asker]

No problem. Take care = D

[Asker]

Hi... One question... Why would you look at Guy # 1 when Guy # 3 is making eye contact with u?

[existing_not_living]

I guess because I might think he's the cutest. I'm just not into guys that are "HOT", you know? I really like guys who are a little more cute than hot.

[Asker]

So you like Guy #1 but DON't like Guy #3 . Am I right?

[existing_not_living]

Well, I like guy #1 more than guy #3.

[Asker]

Thanks :) Ok My last question... I will turn this question around for u... haha = P

Why would you look at Guy #3, when Guy #1 is trying to make eye contact with u?

[existing_not_living]

Hmm, because it would stun me that THAT attractive of a guy was looking at me. I'd be surprised that someone considered "hot" would be looking at me so I might stare out of shock.

[Asker]

Would you consider the fact that Guy #1 would most probably think that you like Guy # 3 if it happens?

[existing_not_living]

Yes, I would, but if I could I would turn my attention away from Guy #3 and look at Guy #1

[Starsite]

Would not avoid eye contact with any, I would probably smile in that general direction.

[Asker]

if 3 guys were in different directions, why would you NOT look at one of the guys in their direction.

[Starsite]

I'd smile at the one in my direction ;)

[Starsite]

I can't pick one from the other because I don't know each of them.

[Asker]

so if u smile at the guy in your direction, would you avoid looking in the direction of the other 2 guys?

[Starsite]

Probably because they weren't in my line of site. If I could see all three I'd smile at the one I found most attractive but it wouldn't be because he was reading, listening to music or built, it would be because I personally found his features ( whatever they may be ) attractive.

[Asker]

out of guys 1 to 3 , which guy would you look in the eye and which guy would you avoid making eye contact?

[Starsite]

The one I found attractive, beauty is subjective to each person, but more importantly I don't think I could actually pick one based on just those 3 options. I'd need to see them first because just reading a book, or listening to music doesn't really define who they are as a person. If I found all three equally attractive then I'd pick the really good looking one because he'd be "the really good looking one" to ME :)

[Asker]

ok thanks a lot :) My question is if you could see all three guys in your line of sight , why would you try and look in the eye of 2 guys, but quickly glance at the other guy and not look back in his direction?

[Starsite]

I have no idea, I don't think I can give you an answer you want. Unless you can get into the mind of the exact person doing the looking it will have to remain a mystery ;)

[Red_Dragon]

My guess would be the one that looks a bit built. I don't have a female brain though.

[Asker]

Good selection, bro. I guess u r the built dude, being avoided by girls,,,,, huh?

NAH JUST PLAYING WITH YA... THANKS FOR UR ANSWER, BRO :)

[Red_Dragon]

You're welcome man.

[creativeusername101]

avoid. I'm shy. eye contact can be too intense sometimes.

[Asker]

Thanks :-)

[DumpliingPrincess]

First guy. In my head I would be like "too cute, too cute"

[Asker]

So you would make eye contact guy #2 and #3 , but AVOID eye contact with guy#1 ?

[DumpliingPrincess]

Hmm honestly I would avoid eye contact will all three. I'm a shy gal.

[Asker]

But honestly which guy would you look in the eye and which guy would you NOT make eye contact with in those 3 guys?

[DumpliingPrincess]

Already answered that.

[Asker]

sorry I wasn't sure.. so you would look at guys # 2 and #3 in the eye, but avoid eye contact with guy#1 ?

[Anonymous]

Where is the old nasty foreign guy who smells like onions option?

[Asker]

Would you make a sexy eye- contact with him or break it?

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely avoid eye contact. I only make eye contact with cute boys.

[Asker]

Thanks :) But if you were to avoid eye contact with one of the 3 guys, when they all see you?

[Jessica__]

None. Its really awkward making eye contact with strangers lol

[Asker]

I like ur approach... It's very different :-)

[Anonymous]

I would more likely avoid eye contact with number two. I don't know... I like guys who love music :)

[Asker]

so you would make eye contact with Guys 1 & 3 but avoid 2 ?

[Opinion Owner]

Guys I've met like 2 are intimidating and cocky

[Asker]

But you do like Guy #2 right?

[Opinion Owner]

Ya, I guess.

[Asker]

So you like GUY #2 the MOST out of the 3 guys?

[Opinion Owner]

I like guy 3 the most

[Asker]

ok thanks a lot :) My question is if you could see all three guys in your line of sight , why would you try and look in the eye of 2 guys, but quickly glance at the other guy and not look back in his direction?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I would want to know more about guy 3

[Asker]

oh sorry.. I didn't mean guy numbers...

What I meant was if you could see GUY # 1,2 &3 IN YOUR LINE OF SIGHT... Why would you look in the eyes of any 2 guys , but with ONE of the guys you quickly glance and AVOID looking at him?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh! I would look away from number 2. I'm sorry! Lack of sleep does wondera

[Asker]

haha... no problem... I do the same thing as well :)

My last question is in GENERAL if you see 3 guys (X, Y AND Z) just like above in your line of sight, and make eye contact with X and Y BUT AVOID eye contact with Z.

Do you fancy Z or dislike him or intimidated and fancy him?

[Opinion Owner]

Fancy him :)