So i've had some issues in the past that I am trying to sort and I am definitely far from perfect.
I know that I don't need to be "perfect" to date a guy... but I would at least like to have my education, fitness, and emotions in order before I date a guy i really like.
The only problem with this is I end up pushing away guys because I am just not ready to be with them.
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What are your goals in education, fitness, and emotions? Most people feel the same way to "improve themselves" so that they'll be more compatible with others when dating, but how can you measure those objectives to the point when you're "ready"? Human desires and standards are insatiable, you might reach a certain goal you had in mind and it will feel great.. for a little while, until it wears off and you feel compelled to accomplish even more (it goes on forever). In short, it's okay to always strive to improve yourself everyday, but you shouldn't let that curtail you from dating and thinking you're "not yet good enough"0