Its happened this year. ALL of my social circle has paired up/married/ engaged and im still horribly single. I can't even get dates let alone meet new girls. Im 27, fit, healthy, financially stable, own a house, play 2 sports, travel internationally every year, renovated my house this year, dress well.. Everyone tells me someone will come along. No one has in 4 years. Its eating me up inside. I go to bed every night and can feel a galaxy sized void next to me.
I've tried completely giving up looking, I've tried a lot and a little, sometimes it looks good then things go completely cold again and my heart aches again. I go out, I try dating sites.. It is my belief im falling into the 'nice guy' category or more bluntly the 'weak man'. FYI 58kg & 171cm might have something to do with it, but dramatically increasing my diet and gym has barely helped at all.
Someone give me some hope so I don't give up? I just want a cuddle... :(
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Just from reading this it is easy to see the desperation and low self esteem in you. If it's that easy to see in your writing. When you meet women in person, they will sense it from across the room. And as soon as they do, you have no chance.
You'll need to fix these self esteem issues. Get some exercises from a Google search. Talk to a therapist.
Get a book. Whatever works for you.
It won't be an easy fix. It will take time. But you're young, it's better to do it now, than later.3