It seems that the majority of women think that it's the man job to approach them if they're interested which is fair enough, but when I attempt to do this the reactions I seem to get is along the lines of how dare you approach me and ask me for my number, I'm always pleasant to them and try to have a bit of a conversation first and can usually make them laugh, but the moment you ask about going out or a phone number, well it's like you just massively insulted them, what should I do? I do the approaching am pleasant and easy going as you should be, but then get a reaction as though you just insulted them.
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You're making it seem as if her number is too special and boosting her ego in a way which can ends up backfiring. Next time bring up and event happening or place you want to visit then propose that it would be fun if she were there with you when you go, she'll say yeah that sounds really fun. Then you say great how should I get in contact with you? At that point she just gives you her number and you have made it seem as if she's more interested because you never really demanded her number as much as it sucks dating really is just a mind game. Hope this helps!1