This guy used me for sex, u was under the pretence that we were in a relationship together. His attitude toward me changed slowly and he became cold and just didn't care anymore, refused to explain anything to me about what happened and treated me like I was disposable. He was also sleeping with other girls the whole time. Thing is when we were "dating" he sent me nudes, I mean full frontal and all of that. I'm hurt and feel used and depressed and he's happy, living it up which isn't fair, especially after treating me like shit.
Should I expose him for what he really is?
- Expose the lying rat29% (24)18% (17)23% (41)Vote
- Don't do it71% (58)82% (79)77% (137)Vote
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I understand being made a fool of. My ex wife did it to me. but as bad as you hurt don't stoop to his level. I refused to be brought down to my ex wife's level and was the better person.
Keep in mind, it takes 2 to tango. You willingly had a relationship with him. So you were not forced into it. just because he didn't tell the truth doesn't mean you are completely off the hook. If you use things that were given willingly then you have a responsibility.
Don't let yourself be lowered to his level. When you get past this, and it will take time but you will get past it, you will feel a lot better about yourself. You will know you were the better person.2